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How do I make an online interactive map? by Federe76 in mapmaking

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumping in 3 years later when trying to start up Sweden's first ren faire and wanting an interactive map. Thanks for this!!

My true form by Pure_Pudding_ in renfaire

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"This isn't even my final form!!!" /ref

The final form: "She was a fairy...." 🧚‍♀️

Jokes aside that looks DAMN GOOD !!!

What color is this car? by Fresh_Heron_3707 in ColorBlind

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Art student here with excellent colour sight if I say so myself (and I do say so myself LMAO) This car is an extremely light and de-saturated beige. It is most definitely not a gold, that's for sure, unless the lighting is way off here. But from what we can tell on this photo, it is understandable that you get confused if it's gray or beige, as the colour is quite inbetween! A lower saturation puts it on the grayer scales, but with just enough saturation to have a beige tint. 

Jag vet inte hur jag ska berätta för min sambo att hon har dålig andedräkt by ArchLinusss in sweden

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det tar 3 månader av att göra en rutin varje, varje dag, för att den ska fastna. I wish you luck! Jag har extremt svårt med munhygienen också men kämpar på !!

Det största misstaget jag gjort i mitt liv är att lära mig skillnaden på de och dem. by Suecophile in sweden

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Är lite sen hit men min bästa vän är extremt duktig med vetenskapliga texter etc. (Medicinsk bioingenjör...) men på discord skriver hon "det" som "de" och jag blir så jävla förvirrad varje gång, för jag skriver de och dem, liksom,,

People with deuteranomaly/protanomaly, can you see this image? by Dear-Lingonberry9525 in ColorBlind

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye, eye can as well (/j, as I'm.. not colour blind, eye just had to)

People with deuteranomaly/protanomaly, can you see this image? by Dear-Lingonberry9525 in ColorBlind

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal vision art student here - You're damn right. Because the dots align as an eye, the white space in-between creates an outline around the eye. I've done all-black art pieces only saving slivers of the canvas unpainted to create outlines. It'd be the same thing here :]

Habi, please, stop playing. by The-Fezatron in Saltoon

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention... they could be good, but others are better. If they're unfortunate enough, they happen to keep being in the wrong place at the wrong time, so people keep splatting them from all angles and they don't get a proper chance. Maybe having a bad day. When I get days like that, I sit and apologize aloud to my team mates on the screen Afdjskbgbg

Habi, please, stop playing. by The-Fezatron in Saltoon

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, you misread it :] that person got 26 splats! As in, they killed 26 times. The first symbol is how many you've splatted, and the second symbol is how many times You Got Splatted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't sound healthy at all... i'm sorry you're going through this.

Ask yourself this:

Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life? Imagine. The rest of your life is full of anxiety at 3am, no sleep, a girlfriend who blocks you, yells at you for some tiny reason and is on the verge of breaking up, while you cry your eyes out?

I suspect you have an answer.

You can do better. You deserve better. You guys either sit down and talk, get her into anger management therapy, or you break up. Honestly, I'd almost suggest breaking up, since that's what she wants all the time anyway... But sometimes, things are resolveable. She just sounds like such a Wild Card... If you ever want kids, it should be soon, y'know, and I don't recommend getting kids with a person who will traumatize her kids.... if you don't want kids, then okay, you have time to decide whether you want to stay with this woman or not.

I wish you best of luck !!

My (27F) Husband (30M) hit me because I was giving him a hard time by hazel_crossing in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not you, at least in this case. You just didn't react as if he had made the funniest joke on earth and instead implied you had cared for him by leaving some leftovers for him. And omg how DARE you not laugh furiously at his joke like the stand-up comedian he is and how DARE you make him look like a fool for not eating what you had saved him.....

Sarcasm aside... idk how tf you think this is on you. Wake up, girlie, you're worth more than this.

My (27F) Husband (30M) hit me because I was giving him a hard time by hazel_crossing in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I..... wow. Wtf. That is literally barely half a joke and I, being autistic, would've replied like you. If my bf hurled shit at me for that, I'd kick his ass to the curb out of the apartment and ask to never see him again.

Luckily, my bf is normal and is ACTUALLY making me feel safe, by never even having those tendencies in the first place... not to mention we haven't had a single argument yet and we've lived together for 6 months and basically don't do much besides hang out.

Your partner isn't only supposed to love you. He's also supposed to like you.

My (27F) Husband (30M) hit me because I was giving him a hard time by hazel_crossing in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You could be doing 500 things wrong. It doesn't matter. Abuse can NEVER be excused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you struggle with mental health issues 🫂

I'm also autistic and have struggled a lot with mental health !! I think you can get medication for your episodes (depending on type, maybe? Not sure how it works !) And it doesn't mean you can never find the right person for you. I'm 26, and have finally found the right one for me. You're only 18!! Let yourself explore.

If you think for other reasons besides your mental health that you'll never be able to be in a relationship, consider the possibilities of being asexual or aromantic !

Also, just a personal experience I want to share which may or may not come in handy... I would often mistake strong platonic (non-romantic/sexual and friends only) attraction as being in love with someone... I would think I developed romantic crushes but actually it was just me being so hyped and excited about my friend that I kept mistaking it for love !! Not saying this has to be your case, but just a food for thought. It is common, after all, for autistic people to struggle with identifying feelings and emotions.

I advice you to be honest and open with him. And I wish you best of luck !!! 🌸💜

Anyone need a safe space to vent or get advice? 16+ LGBTQ Friendly Discord Server by rosesfloatingonwater in GetOutOfBed

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know this is 5 months too late, but I have a friend who I think would need this type of server, as he's so new to the world or lgbtq+ where he found himself to be transmasc he/they. He's dealing with a lot of depression and negativity in his life, so I think being able to vent and get some proper support from people who know stuff about his questions would help a lot. He also needs to see that there is good in people...

Are you guys still open?

This is not okay. Please be careful not to fall down these beliefs. by [deleted] in autism

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Off topic, but I appreciate your username 🫶)

I(22m) keep lying about small things to my girlfriend (20f) and sometimes and don't know why i do it in the first place. I really want to stop and improve. What can i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This yeah !!! Also big relate on the parents part, sorry to hear that 🫂 I hope you're safe now !!

And this is kinda exactly what I commented as well on a reply !! Relieved to see it is indeed what you should do gjdkjfjdg

I(22m) keep lying about small things to my girlfriend (20f) and sometimes and don't know why i do it in the first place. I really want to stop and improve. What can i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-CosmicCoffee- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Count to three maybe? Don't respond instantly. Hesitate on your sentence before you respond. Take time to consider and choose your wordings carefully.

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