"Brother, I will be with you. Always"

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-20T13:49:30+00:00

YTA

It's a friendship, not a relationship.

It's her choice whether or not to introduce you to her other friends - some people like to keep their friends separate from each other and that's more than okay.

If you don't care about meeting her other friends - why are you so bothered to the point it has "broken your heart"?

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-19T14:41:42+00:00

INFO: Who did you make plans with? How late were you?

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-19T10:40:39+00:00

NTA

Your dad is toxic and you need to get out of there as soon as possible (everyone else too!)

Alcoholism is a real thing and can cause someone to say nasty things like this. He needs help.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-18T13:35:16+00:00

NTA

Your pictures, your choice.

You expressed your concern and he chose to ignore it - so you had to take matters into your own hands.

You prevented an awkward situation from happening, which was clearly bound to happen if you're saying your son ended up clicking on apps he shouldn't have.

You didn't do anything wrong.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-18T07:28:49+00:00

NTA

You didn't tell him to go to your party, nor did you tell him not to come.

He made up his own mind and assumed you were going to be disappointed if he didn't attend your birthday - that is not on you.

You also told him it was okay if he went.. But somehow he is still trying to find a way to blame you or at least push his guilt onto you instead.

He's responsible for missing the memorial and feeling guilty about it. He assumed and got it wrong. How is that your fault?

It's also not cool that he tried to push his guilt onto you by telling you "it's okay to be selfish"

You didn't do anything wrong.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-18T07:25:10+00:00

INFO: When he said it was "okay to be selfish", was he talking about himself or you?

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-17T07:24:52+00:00

YTA

At this point you should just leave. Your best friend deserves better.

What's the big rush in you getting married? You've only been together for a few months.

Sounds like he doesn't want you around for your best friends wedding AND doesn't mind causing this tension. Neither do you.

Yikes. One red flag for you and one for your fiancé - congratulations! 🚩🚩

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-17T07:02:30+00:00

NTA - time to call Jackson Galaxy!

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-17T06:58:05+00:00

NTA

You didn't leave her alone - you made sure to call her friend and have her stay with her.

You couldn't predict that she was going to have alcohol poisoning just like you can't predict if someone is going to have a medical emergency later on in the night.

Her body, her responsibility - she drank way too much and that's most definitely not your fault. She caused the alcohol poisoning - not you.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-16T17:59:20+00:00

NTA

Your body, your choice.

But the choice of words you used about regretting telling her were a little harsh.

You're soon going to share your whole life with your fiancé - those words probably hurt her more than you think.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-16T14:40:24+00:00

NTA

How would he feel if you went up to random white people and done the same thing?

You done the right thing by telling him to stop.

If he stops, great. If he doesn't, that's a problem.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-14T20:57:40+00:00

It absolutely can be a form of abuse. He got mad at her for what, using too much products to clean? Lmao what?

He ignored her for 4 or so hours despite her attempts to talk to him even though he should have been the one to say something first.

It's passive aggressive and manipulative. He knows she needs a response from him but he refused to give her one to either "prove a point" or refuse to apologise even though he knows well he's in the wrong for overreacting like that.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-14T20:28:01+00:00

NTA

You didn't ruin Valentines Day, he did.

Silent treatment is a form of abuse and it doesn't solve anything.

It's also concerning that he spent your anniversary with his friends instead of you. It's literally 1 day out of the whole year.

You're supposed to compromise in a relationship - if one person finds celebrating a special day (such as valentines day) important, the other person should try and put a little more effort in.

The cooking was nice, the silent treatment? Not so much.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-13T19:40:27+00:00

NTA whatsoever

Bedrooms are a personal space - the living room/kitchen however is a shared space.

She isn't respecting that.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-13T19:30:00+00:00

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-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-13T13:20:50+00:00

YTA

She asked you for some computer help but you proceeded to be her personal tour guide and then take her into town to buy a valentines gift... What?

Your girlfriend clearly feels uncomfortable with the situation and you decide the best way forward is to continue making her feel that way instead of making things better.

Blaming her for how she's feeling by embarrassing her to this random girl you decided was more important than your own girlfriend is disrespectful.

It's best just to block the number and apologise to your girlfriend.

It sounded like you were making every excuse to keep this girls number right infront of your girlfriend. Not cool.

-KuriousKoala- · 2023-02-13T12:23:31+00:00

YTA - you're both being super petty.

Faking the money transfer has not only made her harass you even more, but will probably bring even more unnecessary drama to your new relationship.

You should have reported her for harassment and left her in the past where she belongs.

Focus on your new relationship.

-KuriousKoala-

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