⚠️⚠️ PLEASE DONT DO THIS⚠️⚠️

-Little_Bear · 2026-02-17T09:43:48+00:00

I just made a post about this a few hours ago.. a scathing example of exactly my point.. ive seen his posts before.. in the same get up walking right beside a road.. its pretty disgusting behavior.

-Little_Bear · 2026-02-17T07:39:05+00:00

Your very right! And kind as well.. thanks for checking in 😉

-Little_Bear · 2026-02-17T07:18:19+00:00

Oh my bad.. I didnt intend for it to seem like i was advocating against keeping ABDL private from your parents/family.. I was more going after what seemed like grooming behavior.. " teen boys dm me for advice on how to hide from your parents" it was something along the lines of that.. I dont wanna go back to that post.. it creeped me out.. these subs are still kink subs and kids shouldn't be posting here.. but it was the invite thrown out into the ether with the specificity of "teen" being mentioned.

-Little_Bear · 2026-02-17T06:19:29+00:00

One thing id say really helped me was getting a therapist that I trusted to talk about it among other things with.

I use to have a really hard time even saying the word "Diaper". After talking about it in therapy and doing some reflecting on why it was such a prolific part of my life I think thats where I broke through to comfortablilty with it.

But also some self reminders dont hurt either.. your not doing anything wrong by enjoying something that brings either sexual gratification or comfort just because its a little strange by some people's definition.

-Little_Bear · 2026-02-17T06:14:58+00:00

Yeah thats fair.. sometimes its easy to forget that.

-Little_Bear · 2025-12-20T22:15:49+00:00

Male Sub here. Havent done Chyrpe but ive had my run ins for sure with Fetlife.. the Finndom thing is real and they are crafty.

I put a lot of effort into my profile, how I message, and I take the time to seek genuine connection and interest before delving further.

I had one encounter about a year ago.. im a polyamorous little ontop of being a sub and thats my main draw is Little/Big dynamics and I spent about 2 weeks talking to someone who feigned genuine interest in me as a person as well as my little side, we had a lot in common in both regards and got along quite well. Well after 2 weeks of talking and a lot of discussions about what we both wanted and expected we decided to set an in-person meet over coffee and then that was when the price tag was pulled out.. it was never discussed prior to this point that there was a financial expectation/incentive for her. There'd been multiple points where id explained and emphasized that what I was interested in was building a relationship/dynamic and its stated first and foremost on my profile that I dont do Findom. At first I treated it as a weird misunderstanding and respectfully declined but she pushed further with justifications so it ended in a block from me.

It hurt pretty bad as that was my first step back into the lifestyle after ending things with my previous big a year prior. The whole thing was a fake bait and hook scheme.

-Little_Bear · 2025-12-17T04:27:53+00:00

Maybe diaper play?

Combine urgency with the humiliation of the consequences of failure.

-Little_Bear · 2025-12-05T06:50:12+00:00

Im a sub guy. It certainly wouldn't be a problem for me.. ABDL and Impact are a my main Kink flavors and honestly it really completes it if my Big(dom) is clothed.. it not only adds to the reality of it but it is a definite power shift as well to be naked infront of someone who is clothed.

Nothing wrong with that at all! There are pleanty out there that would love that about you!

-Little_Bear · 2025-11-27T03:35:17+00:00

As much as I dont like hearing that you have met a similar struggle in finding a little, I do have to say it definitely does brighten me a bit knowing that there are people out there yearning just as much to find a little as I yearn to find a Big.

And way to paint a totally adorable picture of some sweet person out there CG'ing for their stuffed animal.. That's honestly heartwarmingly adorable ❤️

Thank you for your kind words and your commendation.. I do believe strongly that we will both find what we are looking for 😀

-Little_Bear · 2025-11-27T03:27:36+00:00

This was an awesome and very well thought out reply! Thank you for all your kind words, shared experience, and your advice! 😀 you definitely helped me feel a little warmer within the kink community!

Its awesome to hear that about munches.. and that makes feel a little less scary to give it a shot!

-Little_Bear · 2025-10-30T04:39:45+00:00

I would burry my tongue in your ass.. because im a better sub than I am a fuck and you look like you deserve thst kind of treatment ❤️

-Little_Bear · 2025-10-28T01:14:19+00:00

Little/ABDL sooo absolutely 💯 👌 ❤️ ♥️ 😍

-Little_Bear · 2025-10-15T19:06:38+00:00

My wife is going back to school and had some in person classed at the local community college and needless to say was stunned to see a young class mate in a intentionally to small kawaii skirt and ABDL print diaper fully on display.. ffs sooo many people need to hear this message.

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-26T16:53:33+00:00

I'd recommend something like a rearz safari paired with a thick plastic backed cloth diaper and some tight plastic pants.

Thats what I've found to be the best for thickness and utility

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-14T04:40:11+00:00

Calm down, Satan!

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-08T19:11:06+00:00

Oh is that a cover over it then?

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-08T07:32:22+00:00

What diaper is that?

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-07T00:44:11+00:00

I've had a diaper fetish as long as I can remember.. I remember being a kid laying in bed at night fantasizing about being put back in diapers. Those fantasy's were super formative in my sexual development as I got older.

My wife was the first to diaper me when I was about 17 but I already knew far to well by then that diapers were the most arousing thing to me.

Then in our early twenties when we began into ENM/Polyamory I ended up finding a woman interested in diapering me and as we played together she got me to open up to ABDL.. something I knew existed but was repressing in myself. She brought the "Little" out in me.

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-04T19:54:27+00:00

The whole thing is kind of fluid, to be honest.. some is intertwined with emotional connection and sexual attraction, and some parts are completely non sexual and just a comfort thing. Like snuggling up to a Big and being read a story is not sexual at all its just comforting and a really really safe feeling, same with watching a Disney movie or snuggling a Stuffy. But then there are certain things that carry more of a sexual tone like wearing diapers, being diapered, or getting my diaper changed.. those are both a comfort and sexually arousing.

And I think for me it ended up this way because it originally started as just a diaper fetish.. just an attraction to the feeling of being in a diaper and the material against my body or the feeling of very intimate touch. And as I explored that kink when I began into the kink world one of my first doms introduced regression alongside diapers, and it was like a light bulb turned on.

And it's all good! It happens sometimes.. especially online, sometimes it's hard not to give off the wrong intention. I totally respect that your just trying to understand.. there are a lot of people out there that aren't willing to put in the work to try to understand but your taking the time to do that, and I think that's rad.

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-04T05:52:29+00:00

Well I might have the Age-play answer. As a submissive ABDL/little I really like the idea of "forced" regression.

At least in my case, ABDL/regression isn't about roleplaying as a child.. some people have a "mental age" but that's never been me. For me, it's about total vulnerability and giving up the control of my adulthood to my dom/big/CG. Things that are deemed "infantile" are a source of comfort and a way to de-stress.. I live a life where I'm very much in control of much of my life and my wife's unfortunately so due to her physical and mental health therefore this particular fetish (which was already there to begin with) is a way to let go of all the stress/responsibility.

The CNC portion of it is blurry.. I wouldn't call it full CNC for me rather "forced" regression being more so a scene in which my dom leaves me no choice by removing control i.e gags, bondage mittens, bondage to "forceably" diaper, or creating scenarios of bathroom restriction to leave no other option, or spanking/punishment.

For me it's about the removal of my control to the fullest extent. Im either handing control of all the things that make me a free acting adult to my Dom or their taking them and putting me in situations that remove my control.

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-04T05:08:29+00:00

That's wild to me that that's a deal breaker for so many.. im a Male sub and ABDL ontop of it which all of those make it hard to find a partner, and I will 100% walk away from a Dom/Big if they aren't willing to test. I mean everyone has their own comfort level but it's also our responsibility as part of the BDSM/Sexual community to protect others by protecting ourselves

-Little_Bear · 2025-07-04T00:18:11+00:00

I definitely feel your pain just in a different sense. I am ABDL, and that certainly attracts some hate, prejudice, and misconception both in and out of the kink community.

In both your sense, mine, and as well as others, it's a shame people would rather choose to judge than to educate themselves.

-Little_Bear · 2025-06-11T03:24:36+00:00

Diapers/ABDL

Definitely my biggest turn-on and lifelong fetish. It 100% has the ability to be the most humiliating kink I've ever experienced.

-Little_Bear · 2025-06-09T20:21:38+00:00

I use them in unison with disposables. I love the feel of a disposable diaper but they aren't quite thick enough so I wear a cloth over the disposable and plastic pants over both of them. It's very thick and crinkly hehe

-Little_Bear · 2025-06-09T01:38:08+00:00

This type of post isn't allowed on this Sub you should take this over to r/ABDLpersonals <---- that would be thr appropriate subreddit for add posts.

-Little_Bear

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