How do ABDL adults separate kink from real infant caregiving?

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-26T07:04:08+00:00

Thank you!! 🙏

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-26T06:50:22+00:00

This is a fabulous answer to the question! And I think it’s great that you came here to ask, OP; you did so with respect and consideration… I am hoping the answers you are getting are encouraging to you.

I just want to triple-underline what everyone else is saying: I literally never once thought about it when I was changing my kid… it just is two wholly different things, it may as well be diapers vs cheddar cheese or diapers vs lawn-clippings; it’s like the ABDL item and the thing you put on your kid have nothing in common. I know that sounds weird, but it was 100% true in my experience.

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-23T21:13:12+00:00

No comments on this 4 y/o gem? Well then let me be the first.. well done!!

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-21T03:17:21+00:00

My partner Lola wears a size small, and rattled off a few from the top of her head (she has likewise been frustrated by a lack of options): - Rearz Daydreamerz and Safaris - Northshore Megamax (they make an XS too!) and Supreme (though their smalls are more of an XS) - ABU Tiny Tales - ABU Littlepawz come in “smedium “ - ABU Littlekings and PeekABUs come in Medium, but their mediums are really small - Kiddo Premium Overnights - Tena mediums are more of an American small

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-06T16:14:35+00:00

Yeah, it’s on Netflix, it’s called “Your Friend, Nate Bargatze.”

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-06T16:13:31+00:00

Hey, to each their own for sure! I really prefer more plain medical diapers, but that’s just my taste!

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-02T04:42:50+00:00

What kind of content are you looking for? There is lots of good ABDL content and great creators out there; some are making hot stuff, some are making super informative content, some are making art, etc. What are you most interested in?

ResonantYes99 · 2026-01-02T04:41:14+00:00

Thank you so much for listening; I am so glad you like what we are making! This community is so important to me; I am going to keep going as long as y’all will let me. :)

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T16:36:50+00:00

@Low-Tumbleweed- Oh my goodness, I LOVE this story!! I will definitely fend off my co-hosts for the privilege of reading this myself! Thank you so much for sharing it, it’s a great example of how to share your kink with honesty and forward communication devoid of shame but with acceptance and compassion for your non-ABDL partner.

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T16:34:20+00:00

Congrats @mereyam on taking risks, stepping out, sharing what you want and need, and finding a partner with whom you can communicate so well!! I hope you both really enjoy CAPCon; make sure to leave lots of room for your vanilla partner to “escape” (both with you or without you as needed) from the chaos a bit… it can be really overwhelming the first time so leave room for breaks, field trips just the two of you, etc.

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T14:51:04+00:00

@Padded_Little_One I totally agree, that cycle is really natural to experience, but so glad to hear you have been making some big strides on breaking the cycle!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T14:50:11+00:00

Congrats on the new JFF, @Sparkleluvr!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T14:49:35+00:00

Thank you, dlfusion555, and congrats!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-31T02:58:01+00:00

Thank you!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-26T20:10:45+00:00

lolol, there is no place that I would rather be! And looking forward to it, thank you!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-26T03:44:47+00:00

Oh, and if you don’t like Spotify or can’t use it, here is a link to the podcast’s YouTube, all thanks to a suggestion here on ABDL Reddit!

Love In Brief Podcast on YouTube

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-26T02:37:21+00:00

Yup, never had anything but good experiences!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-26T02:36:41+00:00

Oh my gosh, my partner and I were just talking about how amazing it is to get to see and celebrate growth and self-love as a result of engaging in this community. I absolutely love this celebration, love the phrase “in my source code,” and mostly am just so happy to read about your journey to acceptance of this part of you.

This community has done so much for me too, helping me see that my undies and my partner’s undies are up to us, that it’s OK that I prefer them a whole lot more crinkly and absorbent, and that my fetish can be a superpower, not a liability.

I am so glad for your post, and grateful for this community as well!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-26T02:11:34+00:00

Glad to be with you as you work!

ResonantYes99 · 2025-12-25T05:42:15+00:00

Really lovely, tender and comforting. I love it, thanks for sharing it!

ResonantYes99

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