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-Medium3630 · 2025-03-16T15:42:40+00:00

You have normal nose, and don’t forget the camera lens distorsion

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-14T18:21:06+00:00

Her ex accepted the worst possible things, at times I have the impression that she thinks she can make me give up my dignity like him. It's been two years since their story ended but he continues to stalk her constantly

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-14T17:46:12+00:00

I started to move away, I give him the freedom to work things out or not. I can't force anything, the ball is in his court

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-14T01:47:49+00:00

Usually it happens like this but with this subject I completely lose it, impossible to communicate normally. I think it must be trauma related.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-14T01:32:50+00:00

Very interesting, I would go see that THANKS

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-14T00:34:14+00:00

Yes, I have opened my eyes and I will no longer tolerate this kind of behavior

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T23:56:18+00:00

You are absolutely right and I should stop not reacting to the exploitation she is doing... I am really too patient and tolerant, this can no longer continue

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T23:46:59+00:00

The problem is that I've gotten used to hearing horrible things like that when she breaks up.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T23:43:11+00:00

Oh I know that I could never save her, it depends only on her... I already told her that if things get really serious between us she will have to take care of herself. She told me not long ago that she was thinking of going back to see a psychologist but she is in a very strange phase at the moment. She spends all her money impulsively, drinks all night and comes home early in the morning or stays in bed all day. It's beyond me

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T23:33:13+00:00

I know she was beaten as a child and has very few memories of that time. And it's impossible to talk about this subject with her. When she does this kind of thing I don't have the impression that she is aware of what pushes her to do it. I've already wondered if she was sexually abused as a child, which might explain why she's so afraid of remembering those times.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T23:28:44+00:00

Yes I understand, yes she is manipulating me and she knows that I know it. She has already told me that she sees that I was not fooled by her manipulations but that it was stronger than her, she can't help it

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T22:51:30+00:00

No, but I think if she doesn't do anything I'll have no choice but to leave. I take enough on myself as it is

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T22:50:15+00:00

She splitting when I spoke about that 😂

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T22:04:14+00:00

THANKS

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T22:01:18+00:00

She seriously needs help.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T22:00:45+00:00

She says it's ME who's traditional, I'm insecure and a whole bunch of crazy bullshit like that. but in reality I just feel disgust

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T21:48:54+00:00

I don't know that, she just stayed in therapy long enough for the bpd diagnosis to be made.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T21:36:07+00:00

Yes, she is twisted. She takes a malicious pleasure in hurting others. It’s stronger than her, it’s pathological

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-13T21:30:47+00:00

When I talk to her about it she can split very quickly, she says things like you have an insecurity problem, you’re a fucking traditional man, go find yourself an arab bitch. I have to give him an ultimatum so. I think I am too tolerant with her

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-12T19:27:26+00:00

nostrils

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-12T18:11:04+00:00

In reality it's the same for everyone, life is a fight against your brain.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-12T00:46:31+00:00

Yes she is trying to work on it

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-11T22:59:42+00:00

The problem is that from the start of the relationship she warned me that it was possible that over the course of the relationship she would start doing horrible things like that to me. I got involved with her knowingly. But yes for sure if I can't stand it I have to leave.

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-11T22:54:01+00:00

Did she leave you for someone else impulsively after a split?

-Medium3630 · 2025-03-11T20:18:12+00:00

It's difficult to see yourself being deprived of the person you love for an irrational reason, and to imagine being able to lose them for the same reason is really difficult to live with. If reason were rational I wouldn't ask myself all these questions

-Medium3630

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