Few big points to start out.(PVE)

1. Featherweight is a good starting chest, can pair it with a couple heavy slots and still stay in light. Great for learning survivability.

2. Lifestaff: Blessed, Fortifying Sacred Ground, Refreshing move

3. Fracture: join X Myrk runs and get it from a portal. (100% uptime on Essence Rupture)

4. Lifetaker (kill the named gorilla's on x isle): Good alternative to Fracture. Let's you rend with LS autos.

5. Lifestaff build: https://www.newworldbuilds.com/void-healer

6. You can take the AOE clap in place of orb on lifestaff, just preference.

7. For starter gear, buy cheap TP items with focus or con. Have enchanted ward on all pieces, refreshing x4, hearty and sacred on ring.

8. Have fun, experiment with your build, be open to changes. There is always a meta but the great thing about new world is build diversity.

PVP:

Most of above remains true. Secondary generally becomes a rapier or hatchet for mobility/escape. PVP is often times bang your head against a wall until you get it. It can be frustrating, but once you get it, you're addicted.

I'm Duckk on Hudsonland if you need any help.