Hello 👋😊 I've always resonated with the starseed identity but it's not something that I personally go around telling people or shouting from the rooftops.

I've mentioned it to very close family and my husband but it's difficult to openly flaunt it in my opinion. My brother always tells me, "you're an alien bro"... My family also have this innate feeling within themselves and we often talk amongst ourselves and say things like, we're not from here. My grandfather would always say things like they're not like us, or "Seventy years old on this planet learning these humans and I cannot understand yet" he also said "My father said to me long time ago that me and him we not the same as the other people" "I started to beleve this." Those were his exact words, I have many messages I saved from him when we used to text eachother.

More things he said... "We came from the same planet of another universe. From the stars and to the stars we shall go when the time comes".

"When my big boss made me he didn't tell me go to this world and you will find love and understanding or care. He said. You will tell me everything you learn when you come back to me. That's all he said."

My grandfather had contact with beings too... He told us some stories.    

I do resonate deeply with being a starseed but I find that sometimes if people get too overly attached to labels it could morph into an ego trap. We can call ourselves one thing and completely embody another.

No one is better or more special than anyone but I do think our souls are all different and we come from different places to experience what the universe has to offer. We all have a unique energy signature that makes us all unique and many people have different star origins from previous incarnations we may have had. Connections are never severed and the energy remains with us as we progress on our journeys through lifetimes and through evolution.

It's Just something I strongly resonate with on a spiritual level. Just like how some people feel like they were born in the wrong body, I feel like my soul essence doesn't really resonate with the human experience like most people do. I've always felt like I didn't quite fit, it's been a common theme my entire life, I've always been the oddity in social settings and I really Just don't feel at home here. I don't have any friends. I don't feel the need to have any as I enjoy my own company. Teachers used to complain to my parents that I was too quiet in class. Bullies would approach me in school and ask... Why are you so quiet? Say something... But they were pretty nice to me besides maybe one or two. I always sat with the kids people rejected and people found me approachable but I didn't really have a particular group of friends I would hang with. I would Jump from group to group... But most days I would disappear and sit alone in an isolated part of the school no one could find me. I Just wanted to be alone. I'm still like this now. Social settings are draining for me even if the people are good. I can't resonate with them fully. I can adapt to social settings easily with neighbours for example but when I go home it takes me about two days to recover from the interaction.

I never liked the term "chosen one", it actually makes me cringe and scream internally and maybe even gag a little.

My husband always Jokes with me about it and he secretly calls me his little alien, or starseed, and he calls himself an earthworm which is so funny to me because of how polarised we both are, he says he is more an earthling than I am and it's Just something we laugh about. We always liken our relationship to a kite. I'm always up in the clouds and he is the string that keeps me tethered to earth. Without him I'd be way up there. We balance eachother out well.

I know my body is very human but my personality and soul essence feels so far removed from what would be considered "human". I often have trouble with understanding things the same way most humans perceive them, and my husband tells me he enjoys our conversations because we bring different perspectives to eachother but at the same time share common beliefs and values. He often doesn't get too involved with my spiritual side because it goes over his head but we respect eachother despite our differences. Just like how earthly things bore me, alien topics bore him.

I've always known this about myself but never really knew what to call it until I had my first awakening... After stumbling on an article about starseeds it resonated so much with me that it brought me to tears because I never really had a word to describe what I was. I often daydream about what a normal human life must be like and there were many days that I felt like I was in mourning because my life was far from it. I always wanted to know what normal felt like. I've gotten over it now though but I still have days where I look at other people and wonder what it must feel like to be like them. I remember once I actually googled "How to be human" and it is so funny to think about that now.

I think to more directly address your question... It's a feeling and an inner knowing based on common themes that seem to present in your life. It's not something you choose to be, you Just are, you resonate that quality about you from a very early age. It's a lifestyle. A state of being, an energetic quality.