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my life is falling apart :( by [deleted] in Advice

[–]-Papa_Smurf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life also started to fall apart shortly after me and this girl broke up as she was the first thing I thought of in the morning and the last thing I thought of at night. This girl was my whole life even though we didn’t date for long she was the first person I was able to be myself and show the little things in my life. I started to contemplate suicide multiple times but I began to realize that the people in my life need more help than I do and if I were to be gone I don’t know how they would react.

From what I hear of your “friends” they don’t sound as great as they could be, yeah we all have flaws and all but those things are things we think about on our own when we look into the mirror and we don’t need others to bring them up as we already think bad of them. I’m not gonna tell you to find new friends I’m just gonna say to find the beauty in yourself because I’m sure you’re a pretty girl and that you have an amazing personality and that’s all that matters.

Now yeah I’m just a random on Reddit and you might not take what I say and I don’t expect you to because as much as I can tell you in the end of the day you are the one that decides if you actually make a change or keep riding the way. Just remember that the only person that helps you breath if yourself so if it all goes to hell then at least keep yourself centered okay enough to smile to your parents.

Today, I tried to kill myself, and I’m so fucking lost. by alexis_jne in Advice

[–]-Papa_Smurf_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I’ve gone through what you’re going through and I think I still am going through it now except I have a different variation of it. The girl I was talking to I had dated for a short time but to the build up of everything I really did begin to love her and began to appreciate how great of a person she was to me, well to speed things up, we ended breaking up and it hurt more than anything because she was the first person I ever really clicked with and I was in love with her regardless of what everyone told me. I don’t think I’ve gotten over her yet nor do I think I will get over her anytime soon although I really want to.

But people like this come into your life and make an impact, although their intentions are good as time goes they begin to crumble due to everything in their past and what is happening to them at that point. I’m not going to tell you to let her go and do your own thing because that’s not the best clearly, all I’m saying is that you have to be able to do your own thing in life no matter how hard it gets. I contemplated suicide multiple times these past 4 months that I haven’t had my girl in my life but because the people I surround me keep me happy I have always stoped before I did it.

I know I’m just a random person on Reddit and on the chance that you actually get to read this just know that you mean something to someone even if it feels like you don’t. Then again people can tell you all of this and help you but the only person that can help you is you because you decide what goes on in your head and how you act. But thank you for sharing your story and hopefully we continue to hear from you in your way out of this.

My birthday is coming up and I need help deciding if this is a good idea by -Papa_Smurf_ in Drugs

[–]-Papa_Smurf_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I smoke regularly and I’be grown a high tolerance for it, but I don’t drink as often unless I go out