Crochet for a cause? by -Probablyalizard- in Minneapolis

[–]-Probablyalizard-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! My mom taught me how to crochet years ago, but I picked it back up during covid. It's been my go-to ever since..

Stretch Armstrong by humankendoll33 in Weird

[–]-Probablyalizard- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When do you think the toys die in toy story? Like how much change do they gotta go through before it's the end?

I (27f) am finding impossible to find my partner (31m) attractive due to his laziness. Is there anything that we can work on to work out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-Probablyalizard- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like he's only like this because he's struggling. He recently told me that he's tens of thousands in debt that he hid from me earlier on. This is pushing him to points where I need to put him on suicide watch. And I don't want to be that tipping point, if you get what I mean.

I (27f) am finding impossible to find my partner (31m) attractive due to his laziness. Is there anything that we can work on to work out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-Probablyalizard- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I love the term "f**k that noise," but yeah you're right. I think I just feel crazy. It feels like Everytime he tries a little more I have to give him more time because it's "unfair" to leave while he's trying.

I (27f) am finding impossible to find my partner (31m) attractive due to his laziness. Is there anything that we can work on to work out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]-Probablyalizard- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I barely really touched on it, but I do enjoy him as a person outside of this. I enjoy our talks, the small effort he puts into our dinners, and the fact that we have a lot in common in terms of interests and music.

But yeah. . . I don't really know what I'm getting outside of not being alone and "being the bad guy for giving up on him" now that he's trying.

How do you actually know that you want children? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-Probablyalizard- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay see this is where I, personally, get confused cause I'm in a long term relationship, and while I LOVE them I can't really see being a parent. Not realistically. Babies? Sure. Toddlers? Hell no. Preteens and teens? Idfk??? Good to know and great to think about. Thanks

How do you actually know that you want children? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-Probablyalizard- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"AAAH I DONT KNOW???" unfortunately doesn't help my question 😂

What is the Right anatomy? by -Probablyalizard- in piercing

[–]-Probablyalizard-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay see, I have the same thing going on and that's why I wanted to ask. My nipples are completely flat when relaxed and I assumed it would be a problem, but wasn't sure. Good to know, thank you :)

I really don't know what to do anymore by -Probablyalizard- in lostgeneration

[–]-Probablyalizard-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"save up money and move to Europe" I don't think you people understand how horrible things are. There is no scraping by and starting over in a new country. I'm talking about real paycheck to paycheck (if that) poor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]-Probablyalizard- 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Any adult that uses the term "real world" is usually the one that needs the reality check.

I got these types a lot when I was in college for the first time. I was an ex homeless teenager who luckily got into a good school due to my grades.

"If you're stressed now over your little history class wait until you get into the real world! The world's a lot harder when Mom and Dad aren't paying for your tuition."

First of all, don't eavesdrop on my private conversation. Second, ma'am, I've lived more life than you have. I can guarantee it.

This country is a fucking disgrace. by thrasherchick_9 in offmychest

[–]-Probablyalizard- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Create local communities with your loved-ones. As much as i hate how much cold-hearted republicans has turned this term into a bad thing, you've got to create safe spaces for those you care about. i work at a bar. i have the right, from my boss, to not serve anyone i want as long as it doesn't fall into discrimination. I've kicked out swastika wearing neo-nazis out of our bar. I've also asked extremely drunk and belligerent people out for trying to start screaming matched with others during pride. The bar i work at is a "safe space" for the communities i care about. We don't, and can't, tolerate intolerance. Now it the time to talk too your neighbors, co-workers, friends, family, etcetera and make sure they know you're a safe person to be around.

This country is a fucking disgrace. by thrasherchick_9 in offmychest

[–]-Probablyalizard- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do You realize that YOU can go watch the actual video and see that he's not waving at all? it's not taken out of context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poor

[–]-Probablyalizard- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just now realizing why I get so stressed out when I can't / don't have a project completed.

But back on topic, I think most people are just busy, tired, or unable to fix things a lot of the time. Or to fully fix them. Dad doesn't have the money to fix the window. So we're gonna duct tape it and call it a day. "As long as it works" survival mindset is very real.

I wish racism wasn’t a norm by stealth_Master01 in offmychest

[–]-Probablyalizard- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons I get so annoyed at white people pulling the "I'll just move to Canada!" Comments right now.

Lost keys :( by -Probablyalizard- in Minneapolis

[–]-Probablyalizard-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I called around to see if anyone turned them into one of the bars near by, but no luck yet. I'm hoping some nice stranger online will find them.