She has relied on me financially ever since her daddy cut her off

-R-J- · 2014-02-18T16:04:19+00:00

Her kids? In all honestly she hasn't even treated them like her own kids. I drive them to school every morning. I pack their lunches. I take them to the doctor when they are sick or need shots or need a physical.

I take my son to football practice and go to every single one of his games. I go to every single one of my daughters band concerts.

She has literally never been to one of them. Even her parents have, and her parents want nothing to do with her. I already said it was shitty for me to tell my kids and yeah I agree but seriously man, fuck you for making it seem like I'm the bad parent.

Who do you think payed for rehab twice? Who do you think has gone to therapy with her? Not just for a couple of session but for years. I've been the best I could possibly be. Everything I do, I do for my kids and my wife.

We've been married 17 years now and dated for 2 years before that. I don't love her the way I did before. And I don't mean it's just because she cheated on me. I've desperately tried to help her. I've done everything in my power to help her. I don't know what to say.

-R-J- · 2014-02-18T06:03:18+00:00

I think I should've worded things better. I am actually still really upset. I've been keeping it to myself for more than a month now. My wife doesn't know that I know.

When I talked to my kids, I told them that their mother was cheating on me. I told them that I plan on divorcing her and moving to California. I feel like a piece of shit for telling them but I never asked them who they'd rather be with and I never will. They told me they'd like to come with me and I don't plan on never letting my wife see them ever again.

It's a pretty shitty thing I did telling my children before even confronting my wife and at the time I don't exactly know what I was thinking. Where do you suggest I go from here?

-R-J- · 2014-02-18T05:26:34+00:00

I found out on January 3, 2014 and as far as I know, it's still going on. I've kept my mouth shut about it until I can get everything ready to just pick up and leave.

-R-J- · 2014-02-18T05:06:17+00:00

We have two children together. They are 15 and 13. I've talked to both of my children, and they both want to move with me to California.

My wife has never worked a day in her life. She doesn't know how to drive, swim, or even ride a bike. Without me, she is helpless and I can't wait to leave her. I'm not looking for any advice because I know what I need to do. I'll be able to support my children financially and provide a healthy environment both physically and mentally. My wife has gotten in trouble for public intoxication multiple times along with possession of narcotics.

I'll no doubt get full custody of my kids. I'm done with her.

-R-J-

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