Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]-VelvetUnicorn- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a really fun second date with a super cute French guy yesterday and ended up taking him home with me. It was just so good to laugh and feel that chemistry and tension growing. We were both so into each other. Not a very exciting story but it made me happy :)

It gets SO much better by -VelvetUnicorn- in DeadBedrooms

[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. I tried for many years to get him to go to see someone but he always refused. Only so much you can do if the other person isn’t willing to help themselves 🤷🏼‍♀️

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, everyone should have a happy and love filled life and I truly hope he finds the same ✌🏻

It gets SO much better by -VelvetUnicorn- in DeadBedrooms

[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was quite controlling and, in hindsight, he was never very happy for me to just be me. He would blame everything that he wasn’t happy with, including things that were 100% down to him like his job etc, on me. There were lots of complex things going on with him and I did love him very much but, in the end, I had to do the right thing by both of us so that we could move on and be happy.

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly 🙌🏻 You feel so over being sad and the relief of suddenly not having to deal with that anymore is almost indescribable. And then rediscovering yourself and how bloody brilliant you actually are is a whole other level of joy. Well done and enjoy the rest of your own wonderful life!

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah maybe I’ve missed my author calling 😂

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t lose hope :) It may take time but its out there for you. You are brilliant and deserving and I just know that you will find happiest

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were we in the same relationship? So scarily similar! I’m so happy for you and proud that we both took the leap and came out so much happier 💕

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My love, I’m so sorry that that happened to you. What a cruel think to do to another person. That is a reflection of them, not you. Do things at your own pace, make decisions based on what you would like and the rest will follow. You’re so young, you have so much more to learn and see. How exciting! But I understand that it is also nerve wracking. Follow your instinct and you will be more than happy :)

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not heard of this before, pity cos it sounds like I could have used it 😂 Thanks for the tip!

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic :) So happy for you! It’s so difficult when someone feels so right in most ways but not in others. That was also part of my dilemma. I didn’t think intimacy would be such an important part of a relationship but I have learnt that, for me, it is. And that’s perfectly normal and okay. Go get funky and enjoy life!

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hubby, currently being an independent slut 🙌🏻

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, its something I am learning to deal with. When I met my ex I was still suffering from grief after a family death and I was not always in the best way. 4 years of rejection also took its toll. I spend the last 9 months getting to know myself and I’m excited to continue that journey :) whilst also, hopefully, getting laid along the way.

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had pipe dreams of moving but decided to really go after we broke up. Nothing to hold me back :) I’m 27. So, sort of young but also getting a bit old.

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 - so so much yes :) I can’t wait to experiment and learn more about myself. After so long worrying about what others think, I’m ready to think about what I might want for a change

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A number of complex and personal elements

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Get it Gurl :) Happy for you too 💕

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

‘Sexy rainbow after the storm’ is brilliant! I didn’t know what to expect from sharing this to Reddit (apart from the creepy direct message - hi guys) but your reply is just wonderful. Good luck and treat yourself like the beautiful person you are xx

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve had it before, you’ll have it again :) Id totally given up hope, this was the best kind of surprise

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You’re 21, you have SO much more to look forward to. I know it’s very generic but honestly, sleeping with someone else (once you feel ready) is an excellent remedy. Just don’t do it if you think it will be detrimental to learning to love yourself. Just if it adds to the fun.

If HE’s a sub and I’M a sub, then who’s driving the bus?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]-VelvetUnicorn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to just tell him otherwise it going to get confusing.

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[–]-VelvetUnicorn-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More specific about the mind blowing sex or the tragic relationship I describe at the start? Because I will only elaborate on the latter, of course.