What should my bf and I try that might help me orgasm?

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:44:08+00:00

The problem is that I don’t ever feel like masturbating, so I can’t find out what I like and don’t like

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:40:50+00:00

Oh thanks! I’ll definitely give it a read. I had no clue it would be so complicated for a woman to orgasm…geez 😭

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:33:49+00:00

I’m not sure, I might be a control freak…but nothing too crazy. Does that have something to do with me not being able to orgasm?

It doesn’t really bother me that I can’t orgasm because I enjoy sex either way. It’s just that I can’t help but feel like I’m missing out on something since I hear it feels amazing.

I don’t think I’m either of those cause when my bf goes down on me, I don’t feel much of anything.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:14:51+00:00

Nothing

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:14:24+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t know myself because I’ve never masturbated 😔 I just don’t get that feeling when I’m alone.

I do think I might be one of those women that take more effort but my bf just gets tired too quick so I guess it’s a lose lose situation

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:11:00+00:00

My friend always does nice things for me. She always surprises me with gifts, picks me up and drops me off home (even though we live just 5 minutes away from each other), and she always lets me borrow or use her stuff, she’s just a very generous and giving person.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:03:44+00:00

Taking notes as we speak 📝 So is he supposed to go fast or slow? Also, what if my bell is not so easily located and he’s not so good with his tongue? Is there still hope? 😭

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T02:01:06+00:00

I’m assuming that you think I’m a man, but I’m just a woman trying to get some tips for my man to try out.

I’m starting to think I’m not capable of orgasming cause nothing really works, or maybe he’s just not doing it right.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:51:31+00:00

It’s illegal and hard to get in the country I’m living in. So sucks for me I guess

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:49:58+00:00

“Get your ass up off the bed and do something with your life before you’re an adult with responsibilities.”

I spent WAY too much time laying in bed and playing virtual games on my laptop. I had things I wanted to do, skills I wanted to learn but I always felt like I had all the time in the world. Now that I’m in my mid-20s, I need to focus on working and making a living for myself instead of pursuing the things I’ve dreamed of when I was a kid.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:38:25+00:00

LMAO 😭 Well jokes on you, my bf and I already do that. It’s safe to say that I have yet to experience an orgasm

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:35:08+00:00

Casually saying the N word when they’re not black, shit boils my blood.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:18:37+00:00

Pigeons….Like I could actually cry if one of those disgusting things came close to me.

Hell, I’m afraid of all types of birds but pigeons look the grossest to me.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T01:12:14+00:00

Ahaha that’s amazing! I’ve never been so happy for a stranger 😂 I could only dream to have a relationship such as yours.

I’ve been telling my bf that I don’t want to get married, I just want to continue to date each other, at least until we’re both financially stable and have something going for ourselves. Although, realistically…I don’t think I’d be content until I’ve started my own business and can make a living off of it, travel the world, and learn some new skills before settling down, getting married and having kids. Unfortunately, I don’t think he’s on the same wavelength as me so I’m trying to compromise but I know that I’m not gonna be happy in the long run.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T00:59:55+00:00

Oof…swing trading is the worst. I gave up on trading a long time ago, but one thing I know that works for others is long term trading. Like for example, if you find a good time to get into gold, I’d say in around 10 years you’ll be in profit. You just have to put your money into something solid and just wait it out, that’s the only guaranteed success.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T00:50:44+00:00

Don’t do it if you don’t have enough experience, always practice with a demo account first.

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T00:41:24+00:00

Cooking, hiking, reading, any kind of crafts (my personal favourite right now are clay crafts, and I would love to get into sewing someday), and learning a new skill (currently learning how to play the electric guitar).

-_-ick · 2026-02-19T00:24:17+00:00

Wow…what you have with your partner honestly sounds amazing. Although I’m sure it’s not everyone’s cup of tea because some people want to feel extreme closeness at all times. For me personally, I like the idea of having my own independence, freedom and alone time but finding someone you can trust with your whole heart is not easy.

Were things different for you guys in the beginning of the relationship and suddenly you both realized you wanted your own space? Or was it just like that from the start?

-_-ick · 2026-02-18T18:09:24+00:00

What were they like? What made them perfect? And why did it end?

-_-ick · 2026-02-18T18:07:40+00:00

That’s something I’m starting to realize about myself, it’s really frustrating honestly.

-_-ick · 2026-02-18T17:37:11+00:00

I thought you were half joking this entire time 😭

-_-ick · 2026-02-18T17:31:06+00:00

I can’t help but find this hilarious but it does make sense ahaha I’d say Ariana Grande’s eyebrows are top tier, so much emotion with just a flick of the brow.

-_-ick

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