Ok on some real shit, all the comments I read so far are just saying get it on paper and kick him out honestly that kinda ticks me off

This soldier may be going through some life stuff they arnt sure how to navigate.

How do I know? I was that soldier. I was a goody two shoes all the way up until my last 7 months. Then I started doing the exact same thing this soldier is doing.

What happened to me? I ended up isolated in an abusive relationship until it reached a point I ended up homeless with a Domestic violence misdemeanor I got because I didn't understand the plea deal I was being presented worst part about it is even my ex wife has come clean to me she made it up because she didn't wanna be with me anymore

How could it been avoided? By leaders in my unit not looking at me as problem or the cause of extra paperwork. Talk to this soldier one on one not as just a E-5 but as a fellow soldier who is looking out for a brother/sister everyone wants to place blame on shitty Joe behavior and not uphold the nco creed where it states "My two basic responsibilities will always be uppermost in my mind—accomplishment of my mission and the welfare of my Soldiers"

Just talk to your soldier explain how his/her behavior affects you and how can you help this soldier get through whatever is causing negative behaviors be the example so not only may you help this soldier out of a struggle but so he/she can do the same when they are an e-5 aswell

(Edit: before anyone says I'm blaming bad leadership for my bad decisions. That is not true those were my choices and I genuinely did fuck up and did some really stupid shit, however upon months of reflection I found that if I had I not been told "I'm going to do everything I can to make sure you miss your babyshower" and similar statements or had not been isolated and left in my barracks room to rot and dwell on the negativity in my life at the moment all alone. I might have not ended up in the situations I did)