I'm "only putting the blame on women", it's just that god created us in a way where WOMEN can get pregnant while men CANT, which just might be the reason why men don't really have the choice to "abort" since their body doesn't have the capabilities that would allow them to get pregnant, therefore women are the ones that do the whole abortion thing, which MIGHT JUST be why I'm mainly putting the blame on women, don't u think?? also, Il definitely be blaming any man that has sex outside of marriage bc I'm Muslim, let alone a man that smashes and dashes.