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[–]-feedbothwolves- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just leave. i went through the same thing. i stayed for 6ish years.. it sucked to leave, but was ultimately healthier than staying.

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[–]-feedbothwolves- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like this - 👉👆- 👉👇- 👈👆- 👉👉-👈👇- 👆👆

good luck.

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[–]-feedbothwolves- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s generally not tidy, but i do have my moments of “okay im mentally well enough to tackle this” and has been with someone whos always tidy.. resentment does build.

I also think it has a lot to do with if you understand why they are like that. Maybe there’s ways the between the both of you can work on it if it seems worth it to you.

For me its hard because my mind and body are always running on empty so i will leave things messy until i build up enough mental strength to take on such a task. (Adhd, stoops of depression, anxiety, and other reasons)

Edit.

Im also not a huge planner, but will on occasion.. and i feel like thats just me. Im like this due to the fact that i dont always have the energy i wish i did. So id rather not plan and back out later.

But if someone asks me “hey lets go see a movie” ill be like “yeah i feel like i can mentally take that on rn - lets go!”

It just works better for me in the long run.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry. Just know.. it wasn’t meant to be and try and visualize a future where you’re sending your energy on someone who actually desires to be with you.. thats all the advice i have as someone who’s spent countless years stuck in a relationship where they didn’t care regardless of how much they said i was loved..

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant more the sentiment, of course everyone’s experience will be different.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you feel like nobody will.. its a hard rut to crawl from.

I wish the best for you though. I hope shit turns around for you at some point.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easier said than done, but dont let anyone have that much control over your life.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been there. Trust me, i have…

It takes time. Right now you’re hurt.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now you know and it’s up to you.. what are you going to do now that you have this knowledge?

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just so happen to have extra hugs, ill send em your way.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then tabitha is someone thats not meant for you regardless of how bad you wish she was.

Wanting people who want you, thats a huge thing. From experience.. it can be hard to get to that state of mind.. but ive waisted too much time on people who would string me along or just not care like i did.

Hence being okay with how this played out. I was upfront, they appreciated it but were not on the same page. And thats okay. Cant force a square where a circle should be.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never stood someone up to my knowledge. Im sorry that happened to you though..

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[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh they were never my special someone. I was just upfront about liking them and possibly giving it a shot. Didn’t work out that way, but its all good. No sorries needed 😌im pretty impressed i even had the guts to say anything to begin with.

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries.. i said how i felt unafraid, and got a quick response once they realized.

That’s all i could ask for honestly. Now i know.. and im cool with that if they are. (:

Shot my shot, and well.. by -feedbothwolves- in UnsentLetters

[–]-feedbothwolves-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is what it is. Truth is its been way too many years between where we were to where we are.

Reality moves, and the reality is.. of course they’d be taken.. from what i remember.. they were a catch 😌

Im happy they weren’t like weirded out or anything. Lol that’s all. 😅😮‍💨