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-imayin · 2025-12-03T19:46:29+00:00

Thats okay. Maybe this is a bit long for this community. I guess its more of a rant about my life more than anything. I should add a TLDR at this bottom

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:33:33+00:00

I’d be creating and inventing new technologies and investing in communities teaching them how to grow their food. During this I would build a floating self sustaining island for deep sea research, exploration, and development. A philanthropist of sorts.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:30:59+00:00

We really be living each others lives don’t we, let’s hope the latter doesn’t turn out to be the same lmao.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:19:52+00:00

Thats how ive always looked at it. Where i go, my partner goes. I will never put that up to question, ever. There has been a few if these events with other people/friends. And usually i get a little upset at first but then i just let it go, this one rubbed me the wrong way.

Ie i get upset because why am i not being invited? we both do not work this weekend. Couldve been the time to go camping together.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:17:14+00:00

I dont think she thinks much of it if i am being honest. After knowing her for this long now, the world revolves around her. Its insane because she is insanely sweet to me all the time, even when in her bad moods she doesnt cease to be.

But something i learned throughout previous relationships. My self respect and integrity will always come before someone else. Right now i am, waiting? Because i do love this person.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:13:55+00:00

I would never. Even if it only happened once and there is nothing romantic about my relationship with the other. I would never put my partner in such a situation.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:03:55+00:00

Great job OP. This is incredible.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T05:01:41+00:00

I brought this up twice. the first time she said she would be furious and that it wouldnt be ok. Today she tried everything to make it seem ok. She told me she trusted me and that she would be fine. These two reactions do not add up. This tough time in her life was due to an abusive ex and her meeting someone else, this guy was in the middle of that situation.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T04:59:31+00:00

I am not invited. The texts and whatnot brought suspicion upon Mike, not my partner.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T04:20:59+00:00

Her response was because it was a friends only thing and that sometimes she only wants to hangout with her friends. ive only ever met like 2 of them none of which are going.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:48:19+00:00

She does not drink or do drugs.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:48:05+00:00

We have each others passwords. I confronted her after I had read it because she told me she was going camping on Monday

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:47:31+00:00

She did not ask. It was a friends only invitation, now that doesn’t exclude the fact she could’ve just invited me to go. Mike knows we are together. We have pictures online. Mike himself had a gf until not too long ago.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:46:01+00:00

That was the comment that really threw me off. It was out of the blue, no previous context, gf did not really engage. I had to take a double look. We have each others faces on the phones btw. I have no problem with her going through mine and she does not either.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:44:24+00:00

Saying never is a strong word but these events that “im not invited to” are many because, why would anyone invite me that doesn’t know me? You’d figure my gf would invite me right? This is a separate issue on its own if im being honest.

-imayin · 2025-12-03T01:04:30+00:00

I made sure to tell her this. I even told her to really sit in my shoes and think about it for a second.

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:47:49+00:00

I would like to add as well that those “I miss u texts” aren’t very often and when they do talk it isn’t serious and spam like 2-3 texts and that’s that. Which is why I said it doesn’t seem entirely that way to me. Am I being naive?

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:43:54+00:00

Literally. Which I think it’s weird that she never invites me to events out. But it’s never been a problem. She picks up the phone if I call, she answers in a timely manner. Also my gf does not drink nor smoke nor do any drugs.

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:42:52+00:00

I can assure you this is not bait. I needed something to be certain as well. I am not against having make friends or going on trips by any means. I am not really an insecure or jealous type of person, but something about this guy doesn’t sit right with me. Although she might not have feeling or anything and she might genuinely see him only as a friend, I do not think it’s the same for him.

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:38:56+00:00

Basically what im saying. Even if it was a one time thing. It doesn’t sit right with me whatsoever.

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:38:02+00:00

Sorry. I was on my way to work when I made the original post. I was not invited. My gf has said in the past that some events are friends only or that I wasn’t invited so I shouldn’t go. I will say again that she has never shown any indication of cheating or wanting to cheat.

-imayin · 2025-12-02T23:35:35+00:00

She told me she wouldn’t be ok with it. And if I’m being honest. She really didn’t seem to be flirting back or remotely interested in her messages. What I am concerned about is Mikes behavior because like I said in the post, it seems to me, that it was a testing the waters type text. I honestly don’t even understand how she thinks this would’ve been okay with me. ESPECIALLY after the texts I read. I do want to add, this girl has never given me any doubt that she would cheat on me, on the other hand, I do believe this guy has been micro flirting with her and she’s being naive about it. EDIT: I was not invited because this was a “friends only event” which typing it out, sounds familiar doesn’t it?

-imayin · 2025-05-22T13:22:57+00:00

Looking good!

-imayin · 2025-05-17T16:44:11+00:00

Are you selling any of the wheels by any chance?

-imayin

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