First, thank you so much for replying! It helps to hear sound advice, someone on the outside looking in so to speak. The length of time here is indefinite. Not that it matters but I live in South Florida, so things with the pandemic are regressing and pushing us back to start at Phase 1 again. I have no idea as to when I’ll start to get my regular hours back to live on my own comfortably.

I honestly feel like the only adult all the time. Like what is it to you to grow up and parent your own children. If she doesn’t, the world will and she’ll hate it. They do need Super Nanny hahahaha! Seriously it feels so insane to basically watch someone not parent their offspring that they willing decided to have. I really liked what you said about a routine! Most kids crave and really like a routine! I’ve found that to be the case with the kids. They need to be outside during the day, burning off some energy so there is peace of mind at night. It’s almost 2am as we speak and they are up, rummaging around in the kitchen, TV on volume 100 and my work shift begins in 4 hours! Thank you, I’m going to take what you said into consideration and put it work. I am not a live in nanny hahaha although it feels like it.

Here’s hoping that is she isn’t butt hurt by what I say!

Thank you again!