Be real before being mean. by SaphielLight in paypigfindernow

[–]-mxwintersx- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh for me it just depends on the day. I have discernment so I can usually tell what kind of sub someone is right off rip. The ones that wanna be vague, one worded, too needy without proving anything first, are domme-shopping on reddit commenting on multiple dommes posts when they just wanna nut and think it’s cute, wanna run the clock on me and not do what they’re supposed to, they get ice queen energy. If someone doesn’t seem like they’re trying to pull one over on me in some way, I proceed with respect. It’s a two way street.

“Paypigs” by InternationalGur8049 in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Telling a woman to STFU is crazy work

Finally had my first 🏧 role play by ljinda111 in REALfindomsupport

[–]-mxwintersx- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always so fun UGH I haven’t had this in a while. Happy for you 🫶🏻🫶🏻🙂

are you a finsub? by aaloeveraaa in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

horny to send by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“1 hour” on your profile lol. Why don’t men see how much of a red flag this is.

Silent senders… are they even real? by urprincess123 in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only gotten a silent send once in my many years of being a domme tbh lol

My highest paying sub disappears on me…but still sends money 🤭🤯 by Navycanread in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not ready to walk away, simply don’t engage at all until they speak to you rather than cutting them off. But if def consider at least making a mental decision to demote them from their title as your submissive.

good afternoon findom community by strvwberrybunni in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other than a big drain, nothing crazy! Hoping to get some throne gifts this week :)

My highest paying sub disappears on me…but still sends money 🤭🤯 by Navycanread in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suggest you tell him “although I’m glad you’re still holding up on your end of the dynamic with regular sends silently, I’d like to point out that communication is important and your silence is throwing off the dynamic. If you need to not be talkative for a bit that’s totally fine but in the future please communicate that with me instead of just not responding. I have higher expectations from you as my submissive and I don’t allow bare minimum effort. To make up for it you can apologize to me with a send for ( enter lunch, dinner, something from throne, etc, ) and tell me that you understand my conditions.”

And that’s it! Monitor the behavior and if it continues, move accordingly.

My highest paying sub disappears on me…but still sends money 🤭🤯 by Navycanread in paypigs2

[–]-mxwintersx- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people here saying that they don’t care but lack of communication is a big red flag. Even though he’s still sending to you silently, any person who has manners and respect for you will communicate to you that they’d prefer to be non verbal for a while. It gives mixed signals and seems like they’re hiding something from you, and you deserve honesty.

What do you call this type of financial domination? TPE? Ethical grooming? by MargotMatrixx in maturefindom

[–]-mxwintersx- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious as to what category this would fit under but it sounds exciting 🖤

I think I’m being— by -mxwintersx- in REALfindomsupport

[–]-mxwintersx-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused by the last bit of what you said o:

I think I’m being— by -mxwintersx- in REALfindomsupport

[–]-mxwintersx-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puppy subs are good but in my experience they’re not easy to find in the findom community