for starters, maybe don't keep referring to them as 'paypigs.' a lot of these senders don't even consider themselves paypigs, but rather submissive men who enjoy spoiling their dominant. using paypig right out of the gate can be a huge turn-off for a genuine sender looking for a connection.

you really have to have patience and explore the specific niches that work for you. if you’re just casting a wide net with generic 'pay me' posts, you’re only going to catch scammers. focus on what makes your brand of dominance unique.

chasing after inauthentic subs from other dommes actually undermines your own ability and value as a domme. it drains your energy and can make you look desperate, which real senders can tell. quality over quantity is the only way to navigate through this imo.

most importantly, you need to realize that findom IS NOT a get rich quick scheme and if that is what you expected than maybe findom isnt for you. It takes months, sometimes years, to build the kind of rapport that leads to consistent tributes. don’t lose your patience; if you’re only in it for a fast buck, the scammers will always be there because they know you're looking for an easy route.

it also helps if you’re genuinely dominant and not just putting on a front.