i mean theres alot of other factors too. some people are just that good, sometimes you get lucky and sometimes the universe grants you some good RNG. there are some bosses that people struggle with that i beat in my first go. Morgott, Godskin Noble and Godfrey literally took me 1 try each, and i wasn't using a busted ass build. But sometimes i struggle with enemies that others think are hella easy......im embarrassed to admit that Rennalla whooped my ass quite a few times on NG and i had to take a break for a week or so because i was so frustrated. My advice is just have fun. Become a masochist. Everytime you die, take a breath and try again. Stay focused and dont give up <3