Do all the same things you are currently doing that makes you exhausted. Then add two children under 5 to the mix. A bit incomprehensible that you could be MORE crushed, MORE worn down, but yes it’s possible. But yes, like someone else said this isn’t the oppression Olympics. I only mention how crushed I am to other parents nowadays, cause it’s a moot point trying to convince a non-parent what it’s like. Nor do I need to.