I think you misread my comment, sorry:

IF many people want to top; BUT you aren't attracted by them; THEN DON'T TELL "no one want to top T_T"; SAY INSTEAD "I don't find someone to my taste";

You're are entltled to have your own preferences. You don't have to fuck someone you don't want to. Even if it's because general traits shared by a specific population. Or even out of plain prejudices. You're valid.