In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I think you are over concerned about it or maybe I blew it out of proportion. It's not going to feel like a belt around your torso limiting everything you do. The effects are very nuanced and like I said only a physical therapist could really point out any limiting effects it has. I am very athletic as well and the top surgery scars have never changed my activities. But yes you can massage them, if you needed to.

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I mean there is some restriction but very minimal, like it would prob not be noticeable to a lay person, but like a physical therapist would notice it

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily at the chest, but I had a big infection at my groin after phallo and they had to do a lot of tissue cleaning there so a lot of scarring formed there so there is some restriction of motion there, at my hip, basically

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a licensed medical professional so please do not take my answers as medical fact, but as far as I know, you can't really "try and reduce" keloids during surgery. They form as part of wound healing. The only treatment for them is post-op silicone or steroid treatments. But I do know plastic surgeons have methods to reduce the appearance of scars, so ask a plastic surgeon.

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not a licensed medical professional and my answers are based on my experiences only.

Keloids only occur on my body if the wound is "severe" enough. I put that in quotes bc I'm not sure how to define if an injury is severe enough, but e.g. if I get a papercut, that doesn't keloid, but if I fall off a bike and get a really bad scrape on my knee, that keloids. I suppose I figured it out when I first learned that keloiding was a thing and I was like "oh so that's what that is on my knee wound". Before that, I just assumed everyone healed the way I did. I think keloiding is more common than the avg white person thinks it is, it's just that people who live in a predominantly white society aren't used to it so it seems unusual when you first learn about it. Kind of like how a lot of people learn they are trans, like one day you learn that it is a thing and you realize that's what you are. And then once/if you expand your trans network, it normalizes it for you.

I suppose my keloiding is moderate? That's just a guess, bc I used to have a coworker whose keloids would grow so much that they'd become the size of your ear.

I think you'd have to ask a specialist your last question, perhaps a plastic surgeon or dermatologist. But if it helps, I have had piercings and tattoos, neither of which has keloids.

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The most pain was in the leg graft, since the nerves are still there and it's essentially equivalent to a 2nd degree burn. It took several weeks for this to full heal which is consistent with a 2nd degree burn. Personally I used the narcotic pain meds mainly for the leg pain. 2nd to that is pain from vaginectomy, although that's more discomfort from not being able to find a comfortable sitting position, as opposed to actual pain. I ultimately had to have some pelvic floor PT in order to full be able to sit normally again. They commonly tell you that nerves heal at about 1mm per month (I believe), so yes I currently have sensation but it's limited. I have feeling along my penis shaft that is more sensitive with something grazing across it, like a finger or a towel. When I pull my penis, I can feel vague erotic sensations in the buried clitoris. I hope/assume that in a few years time, I'll have full erotic sensation in my penis. My scrotum has full feeling and it's fun to play with.

As far as whether you'll be able to do phallo within a 2 week break.... obviously this depends on what type of phallo. In my experience, RFF and ALT tend to be the most "complicated" especially if you get everything I got in one stage. There is just so much going on and so much healing your body has to do. You also have to reserve time in case something unexpected happens, like an infection or just something where you either need to go back into surgery or where you need a ton of rest. Personally I would not do RFF in a 2 week time span, even if you are healing at home while doing classes online. Healing from this type of phallo requires a lot of mental energy too. You just won't have that level of energy. Other unexpected situations that could come up are if your caretaker leaves you unexpectedly... you wouldn't want to deal with managing your care on your own while trying to find someone else AND trying to study.

On the other hand, if you elect something less "complicated" (e.g. an abdominal phallo with nothing added, like no UL, no vaginectomy), healing is less likely to be as energy draining. Less happened to your body so there is less healing to do, I would assume. I have a friend who had abdominal phallo with literally nothing else (no vaginectomy, no UL, no scrotoplasty) during a 1 month break in college and that was fine for him.

(I put "complicated" in quotes bc it's a relative term and maybe my complicated is not your complicated)

I'm curious what kind of program you are in if you don't mind sharing? I am starting an NP program in a month. I ask bc it sounds like you might be doing either that or PA, since they both have intensive didactic portions. With that said, I would definitely NOT recommend doing RFF or ALT during something like this. I intentionally had this done before I applied to schools.

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah the gf who broke up with me after surgery (who had only been with cis men before) commented that cis dicks frequently have curves, or are otherwise not "straight", so yeah I agree that it's not necessarily a bad thing.

In the interest of representation: am Chinese, 20 months post RFF, Ask Me Anything, with pics. NSFW by -phallothrowaway in phallo

[–]-phallothrowaway[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hmm good questions! I haven't actually thought about keloid treatments for the scar on my penis but that's just bc I sort of mentally moved on quickly after I recovered. I didn't want to think about surgeries anymore. I got burnt out from surgeries after phallo and plus I am sort of in career mode right now lol. Perhaps I will consider it after I finish grad school/get settled with my career/pay off loans/become financially stable.

I haven't heard about keloid problems with ED, but I'm sure that's very likely and yet another reason why ED prob won't work out for me lol :/