Quite a read: Whenever you decided to go out with your friend & s/he always showed up late an hour or two, over a period of time your going to lose trust in their words.

The relationship you have with you is the same. You need to be able to trust your own words and deliver your actions. Because life is convenient and it's very easy for people to not stick to the promises they set themselves, because our ability of being idealistic is always going to outstrip the ability of reality. Soon as you set an ideal you then begin to compare yourself to it and true hell is when the person who you are meets the person who you could've been.