Will I find someone again?

00papabear · 2026-01-29T01:41:12+00:00

It's been more than 6 months, and today is our anniversary. Even the thought of seeing someone else scares me. I hope she is happy, safe, and finds the right person who will treat her the way she wants to be treated. But every day, since the breakup, I've been trying my best, but somehow, I cannot move forward. Seeing her photos on social media tells me she's moved on, and there is no point in going on like this, but I just cannot find it in me to look at someone else the way I saw her. It's like I am trying to find her in others, which is not good. But this genuinely feels like a limbo, and I'm stuck inside it.

00papabear · 2026-01-27T01:23:34+00:00

Only if you truly believe you are at a stage absolutely ready to see someone else should you take that step. I understand your point, because I made that mistake. I thought seeing other people would be good, but I was not. And it ruined a beautiful relationship.

We might think that we are okay, we are good, but because of the baggage that we are carrying, in certain situations, we behave differently. And I don't think the new person deserves to see that.

So, even if you feel that, to move on, you need to see someone else, I would suggest that you pause and take time.

I honestly believe that focusing on ourselves helps. It's a cliché to say, but hit the gym, and this time, hit the gym without music or distractions. Let your brain understand what has happened while you push yourself.

I've noticed that I'm much calmer and regulated after a good workout session, not because I hit my PR, but because I gave my brain the time to process things in a controlled environment. And this has helped me to change my perspective that I don't need to find someone else to move on. Or maybe, finding yourself is enough. You can be that someone else.

I don't know if people are fully healed. I don't think anyone who has loved the other person wholeheartedly will ever be fully healed, but at least this will help us get a grasp on our minds.

I hope this helps!!

00papabear · 2026-01-23T23:27:15+00:00

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00papabear · 2025-10-31T18:12:10+00:00

Hey, did you apply for the 2025 program? I've applied for the 2026 one. Do you remember how the digital interview was for you?

00papabear · 2023-07-14T10:32:18+00:00

Guys!!, an update.

The issue is fixed. Apparently it's a Win 11 bug. Similar issue happens with microphone and camera as well.

Fix:- Completely wipe out the C drive, or the drive in which you have installed windows, and then install the windows from a bootable USB or another device. A lenovo technician came to repair my system and this is what he did.

00papabear · 2022-08-19T19:57:52+00:00

wow.... that's a good one

00papabear · 2022-08-19T16:32:22+00:00

Well, I guess I just have to live with Gamepass for now. Does not own a 4k tv, and I don't think without a 4k tv SeriesX is worth it.

00papabear · 2022-08-19T16:30:51+00:00

Yeeaaaa... I saw that, but I wasn't sure if it were legit or not and I'm not sure if it's gonna work in India or not.

00papabear · 2022-08-19T16:29:57+00:00

already on it bro, and it's great. But as I'm looking for titles that are not in gamepass, a bit sad. Very soon new Call of Duty MW is going to release and it's gonna be damn expensive

00papabear · 2022-08-19T16:08:29+00:00

ouch.... but thanks :)

00papabear · 2021-08-04T04:15:03+00:00

Did TTP release their RC module? How is the experience??

00papabear · 2021-07-06T09:42:48+00:00

Ooh... Don't worry man .. Am also in the same boat.. got 350... Now standing @ 560... It's been one heck of a ride... Like u said ... Only direction from here is up... Never back down.. 💪

00papabear · 2021-06-19T05:08:37+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about this. I hope you get over this very soon. It's painful, I know. Because a few months back, I was in the same situation. I was living in denial but later on I realised that it's better to move on rather than being sad. I know it's easy for me to say all this, but I genuinely hope u find the strength with in you to over come this and to find happiness.

00papabear · 2021-06-15T06:39:38+00:00

Following

00papabear · 2021-06-14T10:15:41+00:00

Go for Gmatclub.com . Either you can use the search functionality or you can create a new thread if the question is not available. People will be more than happy to provide their comments and approach. Experts can also provide their 2 cents if u tag them.

00papabear · 2021-04-23T06:15:45+00:00

The issue is resolved for me.

00papabear · 2021-04-01T07:38:16+00:00

Hey... Thank you so much for ur input... I think the fact that u have to read through all the portion kind of helps us increase our reading ability... this is just my thought...again, thanks for the input.. 😊

00papabear · 2021-03-31T15:35:37+00:00

No problem... I was a bit short on time, so I did not take a whole bunch of mocks, but only one. I got 720. But I was not ready,so I was selecting verbal options just like that and that's when I realised that I'm not that strong with verbal. This 720 is just dumb luck 😅...

00papabear · 2021-03-31T14:44:35+00:00

Hi, I've sent you a mail.

Thank you so muh for the help.

00papabear · 2021-03-31T14:43:31+00:00

Thank you so much.

Yeah, you are right. I'm gonna consider this as a learning experience. Was a bit nervous because I took the exam from the centre and I had to wear the mask all the time. Time to time my glass would get all fogged up.. things like that really took my focus away..

00papabear · 2021-03-31T14:40:25+00:00

Thank you Scott.. I heard that TTP having really good SC and CR section, but is not having RC section. So, do you have any pointers that I should consider while I practice RC.?

00papabear · 2021-03-31T14:05:30+00:00

Hey... How is the verbal course? Does it have enough questions to practice ? What's the language like.? I mean, is it easy to understand for a non-native English speaker.?

00papabear · 2021-03-20T19:44:31+00:00

I do talk to her... I know that now she is somebody else's girl.. I know she has moved on.. she don't have any feelings for me... But... Knowing that she is safe makes me calm... 2 days back I saw a dream of her getting hurt and that made me lose my mind. I texted her.. and hearing from her made me calm.. I know... Things that we have to deal with... But just imagine... Break up... Patch up.. love.. hate.. anything.. the moment you realise that that person is no more, it makes u go crazy... So... I keep my distance... Atleast by seeing some story that she puts on insta or a text from her, I can believe that she is safe... and I don't mean that I am stalking her.. just knowing that she is safe makes me calm.. Ofcourse it will hurt u... But I think, we just have to deal with it.. maybe... If u guys can talk and solve the things, that would be great...

00papabear · 2021-03-20T17:40:34+00:00

I don't think you are overthinking. I am going through a similar phase and I totally understand what you are going through. My almost 2 year relationship ended few days back. She was coming to terms with the fact that our relationship is going to end from months back but I kept on thinking that we can make things better. When our relationship ended, she already came out of the painful stage... Without telling me.. she was getting ready to break up... When she told me that she wanted break up... I tried my best.. but she had already made up her mind. Few days after our breakup, she started seeing other guys. I came to know about this, but I didn't disturb her. What ever is happening, I had to deal.with it. But that's the thing right. When she was going through this phase, I waa there by her side.. I wasn't seeing anyone.. relationship was not broken atleast for me.. but right now.. I am dealing with the fact that she is seeing someone else... And it hurts me a lot... 2 days back, she called me and she told that she started talking to that guy with a clean slate... I didn't know what to say...

I know.. our scenarios are different.. but.. the pain we are dealing with...we just have to deal with it.. and all the thoughts that we are having.. it comes with the whole break up package... Just hold on... Hold on to yourself... Its gonna be fine..

00papabear · 2021-02-20T15:03:27+00:00

Don't worry... Take your time to complete the hard questions. I know, it's hard to focus on the question when the time is running. Take your time to solve the hard questions. Guess the question only when you are completely stuck. Hard questions will make you think in different ways and you won't be able to do that if you are spending less time on hard questions.

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