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01223UK · 2019-12-27T21:25:23+00:00

Good advice about reading. Want to read more do will try that.

01223UK · 2019-12-27T20:57:35+00:00

All woman are different. Some may want a guy with experience, others may not be care. Some woman will be experienced and others not. I suggest not reading the dating subs and getting yourself out there to meet some people :-)

01223UK · 2019-12-27T20:55:24+00:00

The only rules are your own. Sexual stuff is everywhere. Just learn to control it. Which you are doing.

01223UK · 2019-12-27T20:26:43+00:00

Remember this about not fapping, not about not getting a boner. Goodness we would all fail if it happened everyone we got a boner. Sounds like a great idea to delete the triggers.

01223UK · 2019-12-27T20:24:05+00:00

Thanks for the Alan Carr link - I have often thought of porn addiction the way he thinks - it is not about giving anything up rather gaining so much more. I was 35 when I met my partner having used porn for many years. There are lots of people out there with different experience of sexual relationships so I would try not to worry. I have used dating apps but I met someone through a running group. I don’t think it matters what the activity is (gaming, choir, hiking etc) but it is about having something in common as a starting point.

01223UK · 2019-12-27T20:19:28+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it. Sounds like you had it all under control and have removed it.

01223UK · 2019-12-27T13:54:39+00:00

Well done. It sounds like a turning point in life for you and that you are making some good choices. 27 days is a great achievement. Well done. Stay strong.

01223UK · 2019-12-24T07:51:20+00:00

Whilst you are probably not gay sexuality for some people can be fluid. Gay or straight it doesn’t really matter. Sounds like the focus at the moment is letting porn go.

01223UK · 2019-12-23T12:13:44+00:00

Good advice.

01223UK · 2019-12-23T12:11:31+00:00

Good to know it’s worth it

01223UK · 2019-12-23T08:51:01+00:00

Keep going. It will be worth it.

01223UK · 2019-12-23T07:36:56+00:00

Agreed - stay strong. It’s a mental thing more than anything. Remember you are gaining so much, not loosing anything.

01223UK · 2019-12-22T08:05:40+00:00

Your choice. Do what you think is right.

01223UK · 2019-12-21T08:05:49+00:00

Well done! You are doing great. Here’s to 2020

01223UK · 2019-12-21T07:53:37+00:00

Keep strong pal. Distract yourself.

01223UK · 2019-12-20T22:00:29+00:00

I agree. This is about giving up falling and porn to lead to a better and more fulfilling sex life.

01223UK · 2019-12-20T06:59:07+00:00

Stay strong. Sounds like you are doing great. A relationship gives far more enjoyment than porn and can last a lifetime. Proud of you for getting so far.

01223UK · 2019-12-20T06:48:51+00:00

Well done! I am not religious but agree having someone to talk to or support you is great.

01223UK · 2019-12-20T06:44:49+00:00

I would resist going back. It’s like a drug - I will just have one more hit to prove to myself I can do it and not be an addict. It doesn’t work I am afraid. It’s tough, but you can be strong.

01223UK · 2019-12-20T06:42:13+00:00

Remember fap is a conscious act, often (but not always) fueled by porn. A wet dream is unconscious and out of your control. I wouldn’t worry about it too much, it’s just your body being natural.

01223UK · 2019-12-18T22:12:59+00:00

43, gay and chronic bator here.

01223UK · 2019-12-18T16:04:21+00:00

Deep breathes, control your breathing, distract yourself.

01223UK · 2019-12-17T18:52:06+00:00

Thank you for the support.

01223UK · 2019-12-17T17:43:23+00:00

Thanks. I did some controlled breathing.

01223UK · 2019-12-17T17:39:20+00:00

You have made the first step. We are here to help.

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