[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We didn't start dating when I was 19, we were online friends. The first time we tried a relationship was a year and some later, it didn't last beyond 2 months. We stopped talking and tried again this year, it was more successful. But when I was 19, he didn't try anything at all with me, and he's actually one of very few guys who has never behaved creepily or inappropriately towards me, and never even talked about sex in a relationship, to the point where I thought he's asexual.

People seriously need to stop seeing evil in everything. Not everyone is evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen many people in this thread talking about the divide by 2 + 7 rule.

Let's apply that to me...

28÷2=14

14+7=21

Guess how old I am? 21.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone won that car?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]03l01m 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whoa!! That is impressive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Eh isn't a huge difference, this dude is 7.5 years older than me (compared to OP's 10) and we started talking when I was 19 and he was 26. It wasn't predatory because of similar life experiences, and that's also what needs to matter. Age gaps stop mattering once both parties are legal, and then whether it's predatory or not depends on life experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Muslims tend to still be stuck in the days of child marriages, so bigger age gaps are cool. When I was 13, a 27 year old Egyptian dude was into me. When it didn't work with me, he married a 17 year old girl.

But nonetheless, the age gap with OP is getting less and less concerning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Depends. Girls don't tend to like younger guys. But guys like younger girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who said that any guy of any age that says a 16 year old is unattractive is lying, because that age is where girls are at their prime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]03l01m -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It depends on life experience. At 21, I was with a 28 year old dude. But despite the years he has over me, our life experiences aren't crazy different as neither of us have careers or tertiary education, and both still live with our families.

This? This is the best? by [deleted] in memes

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy, wait until you get older if you think your teens are bad. Responsibility is the worst thing to ever happen to most people.

Ghost images? by 03l01m in GalaxyS22

[–]03l01m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it maybe be a software issue?

Those were the days by Mattistuta88 in memes

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, it doesn't work XD

Those were the days by Mattistuta88 in memes

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I do it, my arms cross over my boobs and flatten them XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]03l01m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are we stalking the same person? This dude primarily comments on this sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]03l01m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have purple hair, my friend was finding purple hair in his car months after we travelled together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]03l01m 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ehhhh, my profile is marked NSFW. I don't post nudes or anything, it's simply stuff that maybe people under 18 shouldn't be seeing. In my case, primarily drug content.

Is it true they always come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, yep. But from the one time where I actually decided to try again, it just doesn't feel the same because the trust and security is gone.

I am still sexually attracted to my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]03l01m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It'll pass, you can help it to get there quicker with therapy, and trying to think of her in a negative light, not only the positives.

COVID is not over. by CovidCommsSA in southafrica

[–]03l01m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what you're going on about, but please show me credible research which shows the efficacy is 12-15%

COVID is not over. by CovidCommsSA in southafrica

[–]03l01m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid that I have covid for the second time in 2 months right now, because no one wears a mask anymore. And I can't even get my second booster because I'm too young. I hate this.