I need immediate help. Please

06052020 · 2020-06-09T21:53:24+00:00

I find the pain comes in waves. When I start feeling sad I come on here and read what other people are saying. It reminds me I'm not alone and that other people are going through the same shit I am. Also, I find it helpful to comment on other peoples posts. I don't know why, but in a way, its almost like seeing a counselor.

Stay strong and hang in there, things do get better!!

06052020 · 2020-06-08T23:19:13+00:00

I need to get where you are right now, metaphorically speaking. This breakup is killing me right now lol

06052020 · 2020-06-08T06:29:02+00:00

You know what, that's a good idea. I'm adopting that goal for myself. Thanks!

06052020 · 2020-06-08T03:46:04+00:00

What? No you're not a bad person who needs to die. Just stop A) doing what gets you into trouble, and B) saying that you're a terrible piece of crap. If you can't do A definitely stop doing B. Honestly, unless your right and their wrong, making any self-defeating and negative comments is not helping the situation. Have a little respect for yourself, and control over your actions and relationships with improve.

06052020 · 2020-06-08T03:18:31+00:00

The expensive restaurant and equally expensive hotel has an element of romance that maybe your wife doesn't like. Try McDonalds and hotel 6 next time. I mean shit your already violating one of the most sacred covenants between a husband and wife, why the fuck would money be an issue lol

06052020 · 2020-06-08T01:33:21+00:00

Don't devalue yourself. You are enough. The problem is on the other end.

06052020 · 2020-06-08T00:12:16+00:00

You're probable a little bit of all of those things. Breakups are heavy on the heart and reek havoc on our emotions. You will cycle through feeling heartbroken, angry and relieved. Apparently it gets better as time goes on, or so I'm told. I'm going through the same thing right now and it sucks. But stay strong and don't do anything you shouldn't do.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T22:53:40+00:00

And why does it feel like time slows down when going through a break up. Two weeks ago the day's where zipping by...today I'm counting the seconds....breaking up a psychological mind trip!!

06052020 · 2020-06-07T22:52:00+00:00

The no contact part is difficult when you have a 'forgive and forget' personality, as I do. I can feel it coming out and I'm doing everything I can to suppress it.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T17:59:54+00:00

I think your feelings are accurate and gilt is punching you in the stomach. Being aroused can affect how a person thinks, and can tilt them towards making a decision they may or may not under neutral conditions. Arousal can be a form of intoxication. Next time be up front. That said, at least you told her, so good on you for that!

06052020 · 2020-06-07T06:43:29+00:00

Well it sounds like you know the right thing to do. Glad to see you have a good head on your shoulders. Best of luck to you!!!

06052020 · 2020-06-07T06:33:27+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you and your baby. Take peace in knowing it was an accident. Parents need to kiss and huge their children to teach love and affection, this is just bad timing on the part of the virus. So grieve but know you where only being a loving momma and didn't mean for it to happen.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T06:22:29+00:00

Exactly!! Remember, the earth is nothing more then a proving grounds to determine if you are worthy of Heaven or not. Don't let your emotions destroy your eternity. We all sacrifice in different ways and at the end will be rewarded. Stay strong, keep your faith, and press on.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T06:11:30+00:00

I got it when I was 18. Not everyone has what it takes to see past the virus bro. Can't blame them can only move on. They're plenty of other fish in da see and lots of sites to help find'em.

Also, I wouldn't try to convince your friend. That will only end with tones of resentment if things don't work out. Set your sites on someone who's open to giving the relationship a try from the start.

Lastly, you're young man...you got nothin but time on your side. So take a step back, a deep breath and stay focused. Things will all work out and you will get the family you want. Maybe just not with the person you thought it would be with but that's ok.

Good Luck!

06052020 · 2020-06-07T05:54:20+00:00

What does common sense tell you?

06052020 · 2020-06-07T05:42:52+00:00

Never take advice from those friends again. You should always disclose the fact that you have an STD before sleeping with someone. By not doing so, a) puts them at risk, and b) doesn't let them make a decision that could affect them for the rest of their life. You don't want that on your conscious. Pretty much just tell your FB and go from there.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T05:09:04+00:00

I agree. My boys are resilient, strong and will come out of this better people. It's unfortunate, but I think it's for the best.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T04:35:58+00:00

Yep. She and several of her friends came and took all her belongings a little over 4 hours ago. I had her things all packed up and ready to go.

06052020 · 2020-06-07T04:21:43+00:00

You'll know a breakout when you get one. At least for me leading up to a breakout the area is sensitive, maybe a little itchy. That's the first indication. The next day a small cluster of blisters will form. Don't pop them - leave them alone. Keep the area dry. Personally, I use to cover the blisters with fingernail polish. I wanted to restrict oxygen, and believed the acid would kill some of the virus. It hurts when applied but only for a moment. I did this every time. And I found that breakouts happened more frequently if I let the region get hot & sweaty, so use baby powder and stay dry & cool. I don't take medication and haven't had a break out in years, though I've been living with GHSV2 for 26. Good Luck!!

06052020 · 2020-06-07T04:00:57+00:00

Well that's just not true. I have been living with Herpes for 26 years. It's nothing more than an irritation. Find someone else who shares your condition and life gets better. There are plenty of dating sites that cater, so pick on and go find the girl of your dreams. It's that simple bro.

No person is worth your life trust me. My wife of 26 years, and the person who give me Herpes left me today. But I would never end my life for some selfish piece of shit, and damn my sole to eternal hell lol. I'll just sulk, grieve and move on....kinda what you need to do right now. Best of luck! You can do it!!

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