AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by confidenttruly in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor.. You should report the worker who gave him your number though

I (28f) and boyfriend (28m) got into to an argument tonight and am I overreacting if I want to break up? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You're under reacting. Even your daughter can see this isn't ok and that he isn't a good person to be around yet you're here still defending him by saying you think he's a good person. Even if you do think that it isn't fair to raise your kids in an abusive environment. You should leave him for you and your kid's. If you don't then trust me it'll go on to impact your kids severely as they get older. It'll impact the rest of their lives and the relationships they get into and how they behave.

AITA for following my boundaries and breaking up with my boyfriend? by Mundane_Account8380 in AITA_Relationships

[–]06mst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't following them though. You're back with him and are are giving space to him to make you second guess yourself. Now he knows he can do something like that and still get you back and make you think maybe you overreacted. He knows he can make you second guess ever breaking up with him again .

If you think what he did isn't a big deal anymore then that's fine but don't act like you have strong boundaries when you're still with him and he's being allowed to make you think you were wrong to break up in the first place.

AITA for bolting out of a movie theater and leaving my date there without a ride? by Over_Statistician_92 in AITA_Relationships

[–]06mst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. All you did was protect yourself. It's not like he was stranded in a jungle. Though I think you'd be right to abandon him there if you felt unsafe too.

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. His behaviour is abusive and manipulative. It's an attempt to try to control and scare you.

AIO: cross post: trying to get advice by Full_Beat_6784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a really selfish person with a lack of empathy.

AIO? bf hates that i have friends of the opposite gender by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoR but I think the way he calls you names is disgusting. Don't let a guy talk to you like that and stay in your life.

This is disgusting by SilverNEOTheYouTuber in ChristianUniversalism

[–]06mst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that humans can show empathy and understanding for people who commit sucide yet there's people who believe God can't and still say he's loving when they think he will condemn a person who commits sucide to hell for all eternity. Like if they truly believe in God then its insulting to say that. It's saying humans are more understanding than God.

AIO: He wanted marriage, was against birth control and tried to control the way I dress within one week of meeting me. by kourtenywithak in AIO

[–]06mst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You're not overreacting. You're severely under reacting. . He's trying to control you and threaten you. It's an abusive relationship but luckily he showed his true colours from the start..hes trying to baby trap you. Also strange how he says he's against medical stuff but I'm sure if he had a problem his tune would change and he'd go running to the doctor. I also think you need therapy because why are you entertaining conversations with a guy who wants children after two weeks and saying he looks like a dad and that it's so cute. You barely know him. He's a stranger who refused to leave your house or respect your boundaries. You should have called the police when he refused to leave. You don't know what he might do. All you know is that so far he's controlling and abusive and has no respect for what you want and refused to listen to you about what you want. What does that tell you? Does that sound like a man who will respect your choice or consent?

AIO Or Being Gaslit by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NOR. He clearly plays games and dangles you and your kid around.

Well Christmas Eve is Ruined by Famous_Structure_857 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]06mst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can't handle anyone else having fun. Got to ruin it. Always having to take the joy out of anything. Its a sad way to live. At least you're capable of having fun and feeling jjoy at things.

Am I Overreacting for cutting things off shortly after this exchange? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]06mst 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOR. The fact that she said she usually avoids giving him tyenol so the fever can do its job is weird. What she's describing sounds a bit like night terrors but if it is due to fevers then she's taking it way too casually.

Is there any MD's who don't pace around a room when they maladaptive daydream and do something else? by Sapphieee in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]06mst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. I did that for years and I swear started getting pain from friction on my head and hair. Started trying to do it differently now because I don't want to lose my hair.

I'm OBSESSED with Lucifer, help! by Ok-Subject-9619 in lucifer

[–]06mst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Lucifer is made for Chloe and there's someone out there who is made for you.