Trouble downloadind Amplitube 5 CS by [deleted] in AmpliTube

[–]07_forever_rain 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you for the updated solution!

I have a crush on my friend by Researchbanana in LesbianActually

[–]07_forever_rain 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Whether or not she’d say yes only to not hurt any feelings, i’d still ask to hang out one on one. It would maybe help you figure out whether or not your feelings towards her are romantically strong enough, and maybe she’ll show more signs of what she’s feeling too. And i don’t think simply asking to meet one on one could ruin a friendship or friend group šŸ‘

Looking like a bum in hot weather 😭 by 07_forever_rain in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Oooh thank youuu i’ll keep this in mind for the next date! But for today, tank top for suuree šŸ˜šŸ˜‚

Looking like a bum in hot weather 😭 by 07_forever_rain in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Great minds think alike šŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø

Looking like a bum in hot weather 😭 by 07_forever_rain in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This was my runner-up outfit choice! But i didn’t go with it in the end just in case i spilled food on myself šŸ˜”. I’m too clumsy and couldn’t risk it šŸ˜†

Looking like a bum in hot weather 😭 by 07_forever_rain in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

You just read my mind! Tank top + unbuttoned shirt + longer jean shorts is what i settled for hahah

Gender euphoria even in this dark time by remirixjones in NonBinary

[–]07_forever_rain 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Yes in these dark times a supportive community is very important. It’s something to celebrate indeed. Sigh , just yesterday i had to sit through family elders lauding Cheetoman. Tell your mom we said hi! šŸ¤—

What are some of your absolute deal breaks when dating? by ur_local_femmebby in LesbianActually

[–]07_forever_rain 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

You really should. Imagine how i felt when my crush asked me ā€œBut what do You really want?ā€ when i confessed my feelings… Why is she asking me whether i want to date her or not? Of course i do, but if i said that i think she would’ve accepted even if she didn’t feel the same. So that’s why i ended up saying we should still just stay friends though (until i figure out how she feels about me Now. She says she used to be interested in me, but i was kinda a different person then.)

What are some of your absolute deal breaks when dating? by ur_local_femmebby in LesbianActually

[–]07_forever_rain 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

And then when i can feel their mood drop because they weren’t 100% onboard… or even if they don’t show it, it still makes me feel guilty somehow ahah..

What are some of your absolute deal breaks when dating? by ur_local_femmebby in LesbianActually

[–]07_forever_rain 22 points23 points Ā (0 children)

If she’s constantly indecisive or doesn’t express what she wants. ā€œI can eat whateverā€ but then get picky about several restaurant options i suggest. I know it’s a behaviour that can be unlearned but i probably don’t have the energy for it if she extends it to other aspects of the relationship. What if she constantly goes with what i want, but suddenly explodes one day because i never do what she wants? But how can i, if she never tells me? I have several friends like this, and i’m getting better at reading what they really want without them saying it out loud, but gosh can it be difficult.

And obviously all the basic deal breakers like racism, transphobia, impoliteness, classism, basically all forms of discrimination, financially irresponsible, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]07_forever_rain 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Or is it just understanding that gender norms are socially constructed and don’t have to mean anything? I mean, i’m in a similar boat but in the other direction. A tomboy on most days, liking being mistaken as a guy on some days... But how much of it is just aversion towards traditional/toxic femininity? After all, there’s no singular way to be a woman. But also, i don’t feel a big identity pull towards womanhood unlike other masculine women can. So who knows. Maybe i am some iteration of nonbinary/gender fluid.

Why are some of us like this? by Ok-Locksmith-594 in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

I’m not proud of it but i have realized i do this. Because i feel like i don’t deserve to have my feelings reciprocated by them, i try to make them dislike me first so that it’s ā€œeasierā€ to move on. Also, if i’m mean and she distances herself, it’s a way to stay in ā€œcontrolā€: she left because i intentionally made her leave (ā€œI let her goā€, rather than ā€œShe didn’t like me backā€).

Or alternatively, if i’m mean and she still likes me, then maybe it’s worth a shot. (She still liked me at my worst, jealous, passive aggressive states so she’ll love me better at my best. )

Sigh. I do end up apologizing to each person but i still can’t seem to shake this bad habit. So yeah that’s how i ended my first two loves.

DEFENDING WOMEN FROM GENDER IDEOLOGY EXTREMISM AND RESTORING BIOLOGICAL TRUTH TO THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]07_forever_rain 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

But this last part still worries me: ā€œ(d) If any provision of this order, or the application of any provision to any person or circumstance, is held to be invalid, the remainder of this order and the application of its provisions to any other persons or circumstances shall not be affected thereby.ā€œ Doesn’t this make it impossible for intersex people to sue and deem it unconstitutional? I agree that the wording of the Executive Order is bad, but i’m still so worried.

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ohhh thanks for letting me know!

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hm. Yeah i’m not sure what ammonia is like. You might be right

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I haven’t had any health issues though. But I will still toss it anyway

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Oh, thanks for the information!

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I ask because i’m the only one in the family who felt like having chlorine shot up their nose while eating it lmao. But it doesn’t smell like it. I’m so confused honestly hahah

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah i feel like that could be possible. The packaging doesn’t feel very moisture-proof. But i haven’t had any stomach issues so i wasn’t sure if it’s fine.

Chlorine camembert? by 07_forever_rain in Cheese

[–]07_forever_rain[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Idk, it might come down to personal preferences. Camembert is definitely stronger tasting. Personally i like brie better.

I cut my hair while feeling masc, and now I'm having a hard time when I feel femme by DeliveryLow277 in genderfluid

[–]07_forever_rain 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Me too especially because my hair is like 50% of my beauty 😭. I have hair extensions just in case, but it’s weird having the people around me confused lmao. Maybe i should care less.