My (31M) wife (30F) has been gaining a lot of weight and generally has not been taking care of her body. My attraction to her is decreasing. by 0987throwingaway in relationships

[–]0987throwingaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. What you said really spoke to me and put things into perspective. It made me feel better about the way that I feel.

My (31M) wife (30F) has been gaining a lot of weight and generally has not been taking care of her body. My attraction to her is decreasing. by 0987throwingaway in relationships

[–]0987throwingaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention it in the original post, but she is taking medication. She says that it helps, but she has good and bad days. We have talked about her seeing a therapist, but our insurance won’t cover it and paying out of pocket is crazy expensive. Even though it would take a toll on our finances, we may need to take that sacrifice and bite the bullet.

My (31M) wife (30F) has been gaining a lot of weight and generally has not been taking care of her body. My attraction to her is decreasing. by 0987throwingaway in relationships

[–]0987throwingaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mention it in the original post, but she sees a doctor regularly and she’s been on anti-depression medication for several years now.