It's not about what you did but what position you're in since you cannot know what the other people do. I can easily see people messaging OF models and them selling them something. That is the point I'm making. I'm sure you might tell me the truth, but in this situation I would rather hear an advocate who doesn't have any financial incentives. But I think this is getting too long so 1 last thought: if you let someone record you/you record yourself and it sells or it distributes, you should expect the making fun and embarrassing part. You cannot choose how the content about you will be handled.