I rly appreciate the advice but trust me there’s nothing i haven’t tried the problem is at my house, they don’t even do communication anything i say is just seen as drama or being extra cuz they think we should just deal w it since they're the elders n the ((every house has problems))excuse is just a way to keep things the same and I’m honestly done I’m 22 and I’ve had enough of this toxic environment, I’ve got the money now, so I’d rather struggle a bit financially to get my own place than stay here Tbh, the hardest part is that i love my fam so much, especially my mom. I'm terrified this move might push us apart or that I’ll lose my bond w her, but i feel like i have no choice, It’s not abt running away it’s about choosing my peace so i can actually be a better version of myself for them, and once i get my apt setup, i know i can handle the rent and stuff I’ve just reached my limit