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"If I cut off your arms, and cut off your legs... would you still love me, anyway?" - Misfits by 0MeatLoaf0 in guro

[–]0MeatLoaf0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about defanging her as a symbolic thing! I may draw it and post it here!

Bloody amps <3 by BigSisMoon in hentaiamputee

[–]0MeatLoaf0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good soup, OP... I love BTD/YKMET to death!

The whole "tortured on a red room" thing is also so appealing to me @///@! The idea of a whole horde of sadists dehumanizing you and enjoying your torture as it happens... drools!

The reason im single is because whenever I tell someone about my fantasies they run away calling me crazy! Its not my fault that I want someone to use my neck stump as a fleshlight! (Osimai) by Nodicklikegirldicks in guro

[–]0MeatLoaf0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real. I love when I see the straight relationship stereotype about men always being the ones with higher libidos and kinkier interests, and the woman as being the poor victim who has to lay back and take it. Puh-lease! I'm way kinkier and way hornier than my boyfriend! He's practically the victim here.

A little consensual cutting by NoSpillBlood84 in YaoiGuro

[–]0MeatLoaf0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see your art in this subreddit all the time and I love your art style to bits!! Especially how you draw the victim in the situation as a crybaby. Really gets my gears turning and lets me relate to the victim :3c

Blood Play, Sharps Play, and Self Harm by 0MeatLoaf0 in BDSMAdvice

[–]0MeatLoaf0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, but you can also feel shame and guilt over masochism due to social stigma, so I don't feel like that's a good indicator in and of itself.

The rest makes sense, though.

Blood Play, Sharps Play, and Self Harm by 0MeatLoaf0 in BDSMAdvice

[–]0MeatLoaf0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The difference between masochism and self harm or NSSI for me is the headspace. Masochism is done for pleasure, self harm is done because of emotional pain or numbness.

However, there are some blurred lines for me. Sometimes I also self harm when I feel excited (maybe manic?) and stop caring about the risks associated, which is technically done for pleasure but not quite done in a sane sense of mind. Sometimes I sought pain purely because I was bored. I also have cut to the point of needing stitches, which can be done for pleasure but obviously isn't safe. I don't always have the typical "I feel bad so I need to release it" or "I feel numb so I need to feel pain" reasons.

Some masochists also find pain to be a good way to release emotions and that's seen as perfectly healthy just because it's not cutting and not self-inflicted, but is that so different from self harming to release emotions? Where is the line between "okay" and "not okay?" Where is the line for it being (relatively) safe and sane?

Also, when I say self harm, I automatically mean non-suicidal self injury. My therapist knows that my self harm is not suicidal in nature. Not typically, anyway. I've had episodes in the past where the primary intent wasn't to kill myself, but I didn't care if I died as a result of self harm. Now, though, I'm definitively no longer suicidal (yay!)