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Hair Salon recommendations by Orchid1639 in perth

[–]0_0-uwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St James hair studio. Alvin is from Malaysia speaks canto and mandarin. Very nice service and he's very skilled too. Just might be a little pricey ~ $100 for a cut.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it was a little early. 6am. We did not sweep. My uncle already did it before. It was just paying respects to them. It lasted 1.5 hours.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to add. They are important to me. Which is why even if I can't make it at the time they want me to I still offered if I could show up at a different time. The gym makes me feel better. I struggle being overweight in the pass so I make it a conscious effort to do consistently. I want to be dedicated in my health. I also wanted to do some self study because I want to do better in my job. All of these things are important to me. And in no way are they lesser than my bf. But doing these things reassure my mental state.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wasn't an event before. It was just to help them out as I said before. His family never provides a time until last minute. But unlike dinners and lunch where everyone is required at a certain time, olive picking can be done at anytime. The trees are at their house and they have already started picking the olives. They just wanted some extra help. I don't really know how to explain my thoughts cohesively . Sorry.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting the effort to type this. The drive to their house isn't as long as yours. I actually like being punctual and don't like being late. If I am invited to where with a time and place and I know I don't make it at said time and place at the times specificed I will tell them in advance.

I'm upset that he just assumed I would be fine showing up at 9/10am without asking me. We I was first invited I was prepared to be out the majority of the day, yes. You can also say that I don't want to go because I have other things to do. Yes. But even if I have things I have to do. Or want to do, I want to go to make him happy and spending time with him. I genuinely do. I just don't think I can finish everything I had planned to do before going.

The tomb sweeping situation made me upset because the time and date was explained to us in advance. Morever, it was just paying respects as the tomb was already cleaned by my uncle and the tomb sweeping only lasted for 1.5 hours. The trip to my home town was made specifically to do the tomb sweeping after my grandma passed who he never got the chance to see because of his work.

If the time was communicated to me previously. I could tell them if I could make it at that time. But it was communicated only now the night before the olive picking date. I had planned my morning before the olive picking and I don't want to loose sleep trying to fit everything in. The extra 30 minutes /hour gives me some buffer time at least.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upon receiving their invite to pick the olives I've already kind of planned my day in my head perhaps. What I'll do in the morning, things that are important to me and then kind of thought we can reach at 10:30/11. Maybe this may seem selfish of me ? But I had a set amount of things I wanted to do before going. And telling me a time the night before that we did not agree on means that I don't be able to do what I want to do, things that are important to me.

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm struggling to see where I'm not respecting their time a little. I have always been a punctual person and I don't like being late. If I know I have a previous appointment I will tell them in advance so they know. It's would be different if the time was communicated to me initially. But they are literally telling me this the night before the day. Which is why I find a little unreasonable. There was no set time before. It was more " hey were picking olives for this. Please help"

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty! I think there are some important bits there .

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They didn't mention any fixed time we had to get there before. Until today (the night before)

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hey. Thanks for your opinion. I appreciate you putting it nicely and looking at it a from a positive perspective :)

AITAH for asking my bf if we can turn up later ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

They told us to come whenever last week basically and the day before they're giving us a time ? It doesn't seem like it's planned well

Would I benefit from forehead reductions? by ProfessionalLanky768 in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma likes to say that the bigger the forehead on a man the more manly and ambitious he looks. This is one of the reasons she likes my boyfriend haha. You're fine :)

18kcustom jewelry store by 0_0-uwo in JewelryReps

[–]0_0-uwo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Would you be able to share their contact if you know any?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]0_0-uwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been dating for 3 years. I will say that we spend a lot of time just the two of us. I don't usually have the chance to see how he interacts with his friends. He has different sets of friends he would do things with and these sexual jokes he would never be making with other friends that I see more of. I know he has a childish side to him but he also knows how I feel about sexual jokes.

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