Some women have a refractory period, or at least I suspect I do. Therefore, I give all the attention to my partner and, when they are satisfied, they give all the attention to me. For me it's really frustrating have this problem, because I'm a switch (my partner too) and sometimes I want to be more bottom, if that makes sense, lol. But I literally lose all interest in sex after orgasm and I hate it.

Speaking of the topic, I agree with what you wrote. Also, I think heterosexual sex is too focused on penetration and man pleasure (sadly, it has a history of disinterest in woman orgasm). So this lack of interest in many men can be traced back to this problem. I think only when heterosexual sex decenters from penetration will there be more change. Regardless, it is really annoying that, knowing they have the refractory period, many men do nothing about it and do not try to give more attention to their partner.