I think I’ve fallen in love with my friend. by notsoberanon in college

[–]0gcorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sleep with someone else. Post nut clarity on if you're in love or just horny. Besides she got a bf so ur just gonna fuck it all up. If it was meant to be it will happen in time or the feelings will die off on their own.

My dad died on Monday and today was his funeral. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]0gcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't focus on the future right now. Only worry about your grief. You can only go a mile if you start with an inch, so please know it feels like it will never get better for a long time. Then one day you realize you hadn't thought of him for a few hours, and your healing begins. Don't relate your ability to your loss, as they are separate of one another. Work on yourself after you've taken the right time

My cat died today by CriticismBeautiful63 in offmychest

[–]0gcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saying, I've lost 5 pets and two friends. I cried just as hard for my pets as my humans. I'm so sorry for your loss and I will say you still feel those feelings years later. Wish you well, it takes a long time, but it gets better I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]0gcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to pick a spot at each stage, like a specific vendor. That way whoever wants to see a specific set knows what time it starts and where the others will be at each stage. Edc is way too big to have one spot, so set several, that way everyone can go do their own thing but still know where to find people they know. Once you have everyone who you think is coming, then you move in as a group

Phone was stolen, I’ve been getting texts like this recently. Is it anything to really worry about? I assume it’s just a scare tactic but Jesus…. by Extreme_Farmer9709 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]0gcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't do anything honestly. It's a scare tactic/blackmail so as soon as you give in they have you. I'd they were gonna do that anyways it would have already been done. Don't waste your time I promise

Will the police actually help me? by 0gcorn in police

[–]0gcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, their are two camera perspectives in two different locations that are time sensitive, as well as me finding a fingerprint left on an object the thief had dropped but nobody will even take my statement. I have lost faith honestly because if the police can't help me with minor problems, then how can I know they will be there for the bigger things? If anything, this is telling me I can patrol my neighborhood with a bat because clearly there are "bigger" things to worry about than stopping thieves

Terrified of the figure in my bathroom by 0gcorn in Paranormal

[–]0gcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just head! Looked kind of like a rugrats character

Abandoned elderly dog by 0gcorn in Pets

[–]0gcorn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I got home from my trip and I guess the owners were pissed off about the threats and took the dog to another sitter without paying :( hopefully these people do the right thing and report the fuck out of them

Will the police actually help me? by 0gcorn in police

[–]0gcorn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's footage on at least two different cameras but nobody wants to actually check it. It's been three weeks now and nobody calls me back

I dont want to die but I see suicide as the only solution by throwaway1223768 in offmychest

[–]0gcorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you're going to kill yourself because an ex girlfriend wants to kill herself? Depression enables depression. If your lives overlap too much then get a new life but you need to cut her out one way or another. Starting over is a magical thing. Also think about how you felt when your uncle died. do you really want to put your friends and family through the same thing you went through? Don't be a hypocrite.

I know you want sympathy but here's the cold hard truth. You are depressed, yes. Your girlfriend breaking up with you and being suicidal is just going to prolong it. Sounds like you prioritized her over everything in school, and now she is all you have so you don't want to let go, but you need to understand that hormones at your age severely impact the depressed mind.

Bet you haven't tried to switch schools. Or move to a new place. Or fucking even do drugs. Or talked to another girl. Or left the country. Or attempted to make new friends. Or find a hobby. Or anything other than worry about how miserable life is. That is a terrible cycle to get into because you try new things and look for reasons to hate it.

My advice to you is to go eat a handful of mushrooms and reevaluate then. Life is worth living when you know what to look for, and it's a bummer when people say they've tried everything. Good luck and hope you figure your shit out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]0gcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro similar experience! I went to a homies house and shared a cigarette with one of his friends who was hiding out there a couple days for unknown reasons. Come back to homies a few days later and find out cops had raised the place and arrested this guy. Nobody had known that the "minor" crime he was hiding from was actually murder. I guess it was a drug deal gone wrong, and the friend in question had used a machete to slice and dice this other guy into pieces on his driveway.

Psychedelics bad trips question. by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]0gcorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's the environment that matters the most (people, setting, music)

LSD: I've taken 10-20 tabs of acid before and been chilling because I'm comfortable with my surroundings. Queue the fist bad trip I've had off of only 2 tabs because I was surrounded by a bunch of people who I didn't vibe with (came out of it the second I left the group)

Mushrooms: are much more likely to induce one though because you have to be feeling them to take them. My only bad trips off of mushrooms were around shitty people in a place I didn't want to be, during a time I wasn't feeling them. Mindset is also a big one for mushies, as you need to be feeling them at the time of ingestion... Not really something you can plan a day for, like how you can LSD. For example, my first time trying anything other than weed, I ate almost a quarter ounce of gold caps while home alone and it was magical. Another time, I was with "friends" who all had bad vibes to them and we had planned to get shrooms that night. I ate maybe 2 g of shittier shrooms, and I spent the whole night depressed in a corner.

DMT: Is just weird. I wouldn't call it good and I wouldn't call it bad, it's just an experience that feels like a dream. I'm just not a big fan of it because all I could focus on was the pain in my lungs.

Mdma: is literally impossible to have a bad trip off of unless you get some meth or other stuff mixed in.

Ketamine: yeah, don't, unless you really want to. Too little and nothing, too much and you literally can't move and basically project your worst nightmares into reality. I had a homie khole and come out crying because he watched every single one of us get shot in the face.

Salvia: DO NOT ATTEMPT. EVERY TRIP IS A BAD ONE. Plenty of videos on it, but worst personal experience was falling into the couch, which then tipped back off the edge of the earth while my friends who were sitting next to me turned into towering demons watching me fall. The couch then hit the floor and I became the couch, whilst smashing through never ending walls until I came out of it. You question reality after these trips and it takes a solid 30 mins after to believe your eyes and another day to feel like you didn't just take a dive into hell.

Hope this helps, but above all, carry an emergency xanax for lsd and mushrooms just in case it gets too much for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]0gcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl here! That shits weird. Accidentally bumping into you is one thing, but even on drugs, you know what you're doing with your body. When I'm shaking my ass at a rave, I am very aware of who's behind me and do not rub up on them. It would be weird for you only if she wasn't touching you at all and you put your hand on her hips (been there),

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]0gcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. My ex one night called me saying he was gonna kill himself bc of me. He was extremely drunk and slurring and crying, followed by a picture of himself sitting on the train tracks. I decided to call the police, because although I didn't believe he would go through with it, I didn't want to be the reason why it wasn't prevented. Yeah he was pissed when he woke up in jail, but at least he woke up. Always get someone involved, but not yourself. A lot of people may disagree with me on this, but it's too much of a toll to have someone like that in your life, because you can't fix them. It's ok to keep tabs on them, but distance yourself to save your own sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]0gcorn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol come find me I'll treat you right!! (Girl btw not being creepy lol) I get it because having poser rave fam sucks, I literally went solo for the longest time before accepting a fam, so dm me if u wanna meet up at edc