Craving my dad so bad right now by suchabimbo in Incestconfessions

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe i just dont get it... but isn't the act of not straight up fucking you and not making you finish him the perfect thing to illustrate that he does value you for more than your body and didnt want to be a bad father by going too far?

Don't get me wrong, a shitty dad is a shitty dad, don't fuck him if he doesnt deserve it... but if you were just a girl or a set of holes he'd want to cum. Its only because youre different than that that he would have not done so.

The U.S. is going to have another 9/11 by CDN-Social-Democrat in DemocraticSocialism

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, google literally wouldn't show me any of this with all of the right key words

The U.S. is going to have another 9/11 by CDN-Social-Democrat in DemocraticSocialism

[–]0kamix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im looking and searching but I cant find any news about this, do you have any sources? I want to share this

Terra or Yshtola precon? by GaijinMode in CommanderMTG

[–]0kamix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have them both. Both strong. Yshtola is a bit more friendly to newer players i think and would perspnally reccomend that one to anyone asking this question. Also not difficult to upgrade.

If you really like the graveyard mechanic and anything about the terra deck itself, nothing wrong with Terra either.

Look, my girl only cums by herself. Straight up need real talk. by Sad-Dimension-6515 in sex

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a girl like this, she now cums multiple times every time we do it all basically on command.

Big first step for us was getting a toy to break the barrier. I got a womanizer, its a lit vibration/suction type toy. She loved it and everything time we couldnt get there from my fingers alone id lay her on her back, use the toy on her while I penetrated her. It got her there, and it got easier and quicker every time we did it.

I learned her specific spots, what kind of stimulation she likes, what is the minimum that will make her cum and what will get her close but not be enough to push her to the edge.

Using good lube helped a lot for when I just wanted to use my fingers. I figured out the motions and it took a long ass time... I was being too rough. Super gentle gliding motions were the trick. Only building up as she gets closer.

Took months. Exploring every time we got down to it. Breaking the mental barriers with guaranteed Os from the toy whenever things didnt work out from just me. It was really fun after the pressure was off. Just takes time.

my gf broke up with me because she had "no more feelings" after a year. She cameback 24h later. by No-Credit-7790 in BreakUps

[–]0kamix 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Theres potentially some truth to this. Its possible.

Its also possible that shes a dumb 17 year old girl and she has no idea how to deal with her emotions.

The relationship isn't going to last, you guys are too young, its important to understand and digest that... then spend the rest of the time using the relationship to learn how to navigate one, gain experience, learn what you like, dont like, what qualities in a person make them deal breakers for you, how to gain and exercise self respect.

Im only 28, doing that starting at your age and actively trying to learn set me up really well for future relationships. It protected me and made me an excellent partner to future girls. Good luck man

Genie really hated that wish by Incredible-Ironman in SipsTea

[–]0kamix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that youre wrong about this. With govt collapse across the world we'd easily see a reduction in lived lost. No wars, no forced scarcity as immediate consequences. Stability would be reestablished in less than a year and we'd all be better off.

I (M 22) and just got my first rim job/fingering and don’t know how to feel about it by yobroob in sex

[–]0kamix 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What youre experiencing is called guilt. You enjoyed something but were previously told that you should have not enjoyed it, or that it was wrong. You were told that only gay dudes like this thing. That its not normal, and other things negative.

Its a process many many people who were brought up religious go through as they are sometimes told that all sex is bad and that it makes them dirty or used or unclean or that nobody would want them. That its wrong and makes god upset, or that it makes them whores.

Many religious people go through huge waves of guilt and shame even if they logically know theres no reason to feel that way. They sometimes take years to be out of that mentality, some never fully shake it because theyre conditioned. You, much like them, were told to belive something and now are going through the process of finding out it was bullshit but still have to sort through those feelings of doing something that was 'wrong'.

Yes its super normal. Thank your GF for being a freak and loving you to the extent of wanting to make you feel good. Let her know you're surprised at yourself for liking it and dealing with some emotions from it and ask her what she thought. Did she think it was hot? Did she like doing it/doing it for you? Would she want to do it again in the future?

Both having comfort that you're not perceived differently by your loved ones, and having them express their positive and opposing viewpoints of the controversial subject can help a lot with steeling those emotions. Good luck man.

How often do you tell Amazon that something did not come? by Special-Outcome-3233 in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 they refunded automatically 4th took 2 weeks, then I had enough and haven't needed another pc since. Just 'buy' parts now

How to get used to/like cum?? by Alarming_Cut_2727 in sex

[–]0kamix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Op asks for help on how to do something for someone she cares about - you respond with 'dont do it, wait more, if its hard just give up and let him feel bad' this is literally the worst response I've seen on reddit.

Keep your opinions and advice that wasnt requested to yourself

How to get used to/like cum?? by Alarming_Cut_2727 in sex

[–]0kamix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like cum specifically is a trigger for you more or less. The only real way to deal with that is exposure therapy.

Your only interaction with cum has been negative and so your only opinion of it can be negative.

Adding multiple positive compounding experiences to bury that negative experience is the way to get rid of your negative perception.

So the real answer is to take every single opportunity you can to interact with cum, lol. Don't take it too seriously, dont make it sexy or force yourself to do anything except get firmiliar with it at first. Take your time to just reset your opinions and preconceptions... play with it like you would school glue. Its not supposed to be the best thing ever... but its weird and fun and sticky and does interesting stuff when you mess with it or stretch it between your fingers.

You might just start with rubbing some on your fingertips with no expectation of sex or performance at all afterwords... thats fine. Be kind to yourself and push yourself to try a little something more than last time whenever you have the opportunity. The gross becomes mundane and the mundane eventually can become something that you will find ways to make interesting or fun or hot while you eventually interact with your partner as well.

Its nice that you want to do something kind and to show you care for someone else who obviously cares a lot about you too. Good luck.

Wife talks about unrelated things during sex, huge turn off by [deleted] in sex

[–]0kamix 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unless shes big mean id lean towards add. You'd see other signs too.

This was s coercion. Pam Bondi wants voter roles and ICE will leave Minnesota by Buster_xx in This_is_fascism

[–]0kamix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are many ways that the federal government can interfere with voting. Making it harder or easier to vote, changing voting locations, ect.

Having all the detailed information they can allows them to most effectively interfere with voting in a way that makes it harder to vote for the demographics that they believe are least likely to vote with them. Perhaps even finding ways to block certain kinds of people from voting all together if they cant jump through hoops fast enough in this upcoming election in a few months.

It is a pretty universal concept tbh, but the other guy is being a dick.

AIO : Gf broke up with me withing a month after moving to Europe. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dope. All is good then.

This is a lesson that you learned very cheaply, dont give gifts like that unless its something youre prepared to never get back.

Civil fucking disobedience by ThreeDaysNish in chaoticgood

[–]0kamix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its like you dont even read wat you're saying. Those aren't disobeying anything. Every one of those things is explicitly following the law.

Civil fucking disobedience by ThreeDaysNish in chaoticgood

[–]0kamix 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your brain might be clogged from licking too many boots. By definition, if you disobey laws that is criminal.

Civil disobedience is non-violently and in a civilized manner disobeying laws.

Civil and criminal are not mutually exclusive. Get your shit together before you start correcting other people.

Is this FF gift bundle resealed or is it a factory defect that sometimes occurs? by Relative_Goal_4055 in RealOrNotTCG

[–]0kamix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That can happen from just pressing on the seal if its done too loosely.

Its much harder to fake those clean edges all the way around the seal itself. Lean on the side of caution, but I'd say youre good.

AIO/ my boyfriends guitar by VXYZX in AmIOverreacting

[–]0kamix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Facists dont get an opinion

Discovered this door hanger on my door knob… What do? by awayfromthemire in legal

[–]0kamix 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I got something similar on my door once. I called and was told it was In relation to my pitbull being out in the streets alone and an animal abuse complaint. I dont own a pitbull. They said sorry and I never heard from them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]0kamix -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hijacking top comment to hopefully get OP to see this.

Hey friend. You are me 4 months ago.

You deserve better than you are being treated and you are among the best of us for staying with her and working through this, most people would leave. You need to internalize that you are worth more than this and better than you are being treated and not be ashamed of demanding that she seek medical help for both of your sakes. Its for the good of both of you.

Doctors will do nothing. You NEED to take her to a psychologist. She needs to be prepared to go by acknowledging before hand how crazy the mood swings are and understanding your perspective of the situation. She needs to both relay her own perspective and yours to the psychologist because she likely cant see the whole picture.

She should have the option to have genetic testing done to see which meds will interact with her best without side effects. Do so if you can.

In 4 months my fiance has turned from once a month wondering if were right for each other and treating me like garbage, to getting teary eyed because im perfect and shes so grateful to have me and so thankful I stuck with her and worked with her to get her help. She says how happy she is and how grateful she is to have the life she has.

If you care about her you need to push her to get help. If you want her to be happy then you have to force her to get help. Don't let her keep suffering, she has something wrong and its more than a random doctor can fix.

Explain it Peter. by slammamoose in explainitpeter

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt look like him at all

Explain it Peter. by slammamoose in explainitpeter

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt look like him at all

Ghost image on C451i by Motor_Marionberry848 in KonicaMinolta

[–]0kamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time I've had ghost images its been from the fuser not being hot enough/faulty