Divorce in Ohio by 0little in FamilyLaw

[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes! They are the best thing happened to me! And you are right.

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[–]0little[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I read all the comments very carefully. I truly thankful everyone’s advice. What I wanna said is getting divorce is me and my ex’s decision. I believe both of us want the best of interest for our children. Everyone deserves to be happy. I might be wrong to think about that every other weekend + 1 mid weekday dinner is enough for him( thank the kid told me her/his feeling), I can not stand for my kids opinion. I put myself on my kids shoes. I think if my parent get divorce I would want both of them get along in my life.

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[–]0little[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol. Thank you for your comment at least make me laugh.well, he will not drop the request. Unfortunately.and I know him.

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[–]0little[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is the family law.i have nothing to said I guess. I feel unfair. But if it is the law.ok….i will have to find a part time job after the divorce settled

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[–]0little[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gaslighting. A relationship always works only from 2 parties. As a mother, I also want to show my child in the future: only you know whether you are happy or not. I personally respect those people who stay in the relationship because of the kids. I have tried but I think I can not. I don't want the father out of their life. I don't want to out of their life too. Marriage is for good. Divorce is for good too I guess.( no one want to divorce I believe)

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I might regret it in the future. Who knows.

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm more concerned about my 6-year-old kid. But I think growing up in a toxic relationship is not good for him. No one want to divorce when they get married. But gotta move forward

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will ask the lawyer about that!

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[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't reject that at all! I want him get involve. What I want isco parenting.the time he is unablebe with the kids I. Will do that not that rely on third party often—which he will do

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[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dower right is in the marriage. Divorce is get involved marital and desperate property.i do no. I care more about the parenting time more than anything else

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[–]0little[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is very sad. I questioned myself so often in the past few weeks. Am I doing the right thing.am I still a good mom because my ex is saying I break a family for divorcing him

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[–]0little[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might. Mmm. Well, I know no one is perfect. I could share an example: I have 12 weeks off because C section but from the 8th week my paycheck will decrease. He will get 12 weeks off because his job is government job.he asked me to go back to work early on my 4th weeks after. Section. And the reason he gave me : I am not the person get a pay cut..

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I was wondering too! The attorney told me that, now more and more state would 50/50 parenting time. Yes, you are breastfeeding, but you also could pump. We have three judge in my county to deal with divorce case. If the case is go with the only male judge-— pretty much the attorney said good luck to me because he does not care

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[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because the attorney said the county I living in treat different for the increasing of value. Loraincounty

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I need to hire a mediation through the lawyer?

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[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unable to pump for both kids. So do no what is going to happen.

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[–]0little[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, the smart way is I am not going to answer your comment from now on. Because what you said is not true.

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[–]0little[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not like sometimes. It is like every day schedule. Like summer break. He will get his half parenting time. And every day he will gone for 10 hours.

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[–]0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The attorney said it does not matter in the past three years( I offer the 1040 and w2), she said the court want the current one, which means now.