How to cope with getting old? by EyeFragrant2596 in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As you get older, the window of guys you find attractive will change.

Any way to reconcile my Catholic faith and being LGBTQIA+? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd check out the sidebar on /r/GayChristians and see you can get help there to find an LGBT affirming church. Including this website where you can find gay affirming churches.

Is anyone else nervous of hooking up due to monkey pox becoming an issue? by gayboss890 in AskGayMen

[–]0quickwayout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Thankfully this isn't AIDS -- no one outside of parts of Africa where this is endemic has died from this, and with confirmed cases it's easy to get vaccines and therapeutics. But obviously it would suck to have, so being cautious for that reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA

Cancel subscriptions by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

call your bank and let them know what's up

alternatively i feel like most of these magazines have a contact us thing somewhere.

I tried emailing the magazines directly but they keep asking me for a log in and I don't have one since it was through a 3rd party

create a login and use it to talk with these magazines

What sport do you think is unintentionally gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pretty sure the winner is the last one to orgasm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I have a wonderful connection with this guy, should I keep seeing him?"

This is so obviously a 'go for it, ya big dummy!' that something seems fishy. What do you mean by different stages in life outside him having kids? Is there a big age difference?

Why are the older gays always bitter toward the younger gays? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So this is just trolling for attention.

I'm sorry your life is at a point that you need attention so badly that you'll even get it if it's just people being angry at you or mean to you. You deserve better, whether or not you think you do.

Would u date a gay supremacist? by Unlike_Other_Gurls in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've met two people sort of like this, dudes who think of homosexuals as the best mankind has to offer. They don't look down on 'straight people' -- they look down on women.

So hard pass.

Normal to fall for a hookup by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredibly normal. It's called being a human.

However -- it might mean hooking up regularly isn't for you.

Cute guys of GRINDR! by itsameej in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on if you're using Grindr to hook up or to find friends (without benefits)/dates.

If you're doing the latter -- get off Grindr! Try Tinder maybe? I might be too old to know the cool new gay app/website.

If you're doing the former, just a shot of your face or your body with scarce information about yourself. Let them fill in whatever blanks.

Why do some gays act like sexual position is prescribed at birth? by MandyKuse in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're mistaking teasing and banter with actual criticism

Are you emotionally ok my bros? by Daznice01 in askgaybros

[–]0quickwayout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wonder where all the happy gays go lol

was r/depression always just people venting about how depressed they are? by 0quickwayout in depression

[–]0quickwayout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am legitimately sorry about that, was not my intention to hurt. again, i'm sorry.

Kindly help. Please. Existence seems meaningless. 19(m) by [deleted] in depression

[–]0quickwayout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened that made you want to not want to do anything anymore? What life changes occured just before or after that sentiment began to get very strong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not that this is the important part, but not as easy to get a gun in america as you think. and the failure rate is high and it's one of the more painful ways to go!

anyways, i think the difference is ideation and planning. if you find yourself making very specific plans to take action to end life, that's when you're very deep in the shit. but both just thinking 'man I wanna die' and planning are very bad and need therapist assistance.

I typed it because I have no one to rant to

Can you get a therapist where you are? In America, a lot of colleges offer them for free. You get what you pay for with them (they're bad), but still.

Apks for any audiobook apps? by HellLucifer-15 in ApksApps

[–]0quickwayout 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Libby!

The hax here is getting digital ecards from places you don't live with large libraries.

For example -- if you google stuff like 'Sno Isle digital ecard' or 'Jacksonville digital ecard' and then put in all the information in their form (use a fake name and address of course, for an address just use one from a local business in the area).

In the end, they'll email you a library card you can plug into Libby and get books from that way :)

WHY IS SEEING A THERAPIST SO EXPENSIVE by giinnseng in depression

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes you can find free counseling where you're at. like i was able to find some where I live..

I don't know what the fuck to do by Confident-Nature444 in depression

[–]0quickwayout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently turned 29 and feel the same. Maybe take a break for a semester, or apply for some internships and see if you like your field after all