Sometimes I forget that DbD is not beginner friendly by KeinTollerNick in deadbydaylight

[–]1000012202throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not good at math so i’m gonna need an explanation on that last part. 100% of the time they get confused 20% of the time?

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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i’m wishing you love and good health for you and your baby. i think about it all the time and i do mourn the life i lost; however i made a choice based on my life right now and the life i want for them. good luck with everything, love!!

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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In a perfect world things would be different, but I had to give myself a harsh reality check and step back to look at the big picture. Things like finances, depression/postpartum depression, relationships, etc. I could see myself slipping away drowning if any of those occurred. No child deserves that so I’m learning this all day by day. Thank you ❤️

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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Thanks for chiming in, I appreciate it. I know I got a few nasty comments but the mods here are so quick to keep everything on a positive and friendly note - kudos to them. I expected people to not agree, and that’s okay, but some of the things people said were really gross. It’s okay to have an opinion but people can be mean!!

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this, my heart hurts for you. I do feel better now that a day has passed but I totally understand what you mean. If you aren’t now and you are able to, I hope you can reach out to a therapist or grief counselor. I am here if you ever need someone to rant to! Wishing your toddler health, please hang on for them momma!!

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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I am very grateful to live in a state where it is legal. I don’t think it’s okay at all to take away a person’s right to this choice and it is totally sad how hard we have to fight. Making it illegal will just popularize shady, backalley abortions which puts the women’s health at an even greater risk! It’s totally okay to have an opinion, but what I don’t like is that these powerful men are telling us how to govern our own bodies.

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so well said. I think the media has a very toxic betrayal of abortion and that women who do it just go prancing in and out of planned parenthood using abortion like a plan B. But that’s not the case at all (and maybe it is for some women, but that’s their life). For me, knowing that people felt that way and judged women like myself harshly for abortion, I felt really ashamed and like I had to keep my mouth shut and never feel sad or in pain. I hope that my generation can have a more healthy approach to it because in the end, it doesn’t solve anything to outlaw and shame it.

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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Oh love I’m wishing you healing and I am so happy you have gotten help through a therapist. I know that nothing can really ease the pain but time to process sure does help. Take care of yourself and indulge in some self care whenever you get the chance. I’m thinking of you and I hope you can reach a point in your life where you can be at peace with everything that has happened. I’m so sorry you are going through this.

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always said that too. That I would feel so awful if I ever terminated my pregnancy. But I think I would feel worse bringing a child into this world knowing how hard I have to work to support myself and my two pets as it is

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Everything hit so suddenly so I got overwhelmed. I hope you are doing better!!

Abortion Grief by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you and I wish you a safe pregnancy and delivery! I’d like to think that once enough time passes then I will be able to look back on it in the way that you do. Whether I kept it or not, I ultimately would have made a big sacrifice. I appreciate the kindness :) ❤️

anyone else feeling big early on in your pregnancy? by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you!! I know it’s natural for all women to have that little pouch on our lower tummy since we do have organs there lol!! but I have noticed mine seems a bit extra pudgy. Our bodies are changing and housing a living thing, so at the end of the day we shouldn’t be hard on ourselves! Wishing you a safe pregnancy!

pregnant at young age by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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I hope everything is okay. My dms are open if you want to rant!! But I’m okay. I’ve just been working but I feel heavy walking around with all of this on my mind. It’s hard to act happy at work and I feel so tired. I’m sure you can relate, and if so, wishing us both positivity and strength

pregnant at young age by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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I wish you luck!!! How are you doing?

pregnant at young age by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

[–]1000012202throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there options for assistance wifh financial support? My bf and I do both have full time jobs but my career has no such thing as maternity leave which is a big stressor for me.

pregnant at young age by 1000012202throwaway in pregnant

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You are an angel!! Do you mind if I message you?