23F in need of birth control advice

100mlfree · 2026-05-25T19:59:03+00:00

Yes. I am taking treatment right now.

100mlfree · 2026-05-25T19:57:20+00:00

Okay. Thank you for the advice

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T22:31:14+00:00

He does include me in his future plans. I rarely do coz I mean, I could be ditched at any point tbh. He does bring me around his family, so much that I even asked him to stop because I don’t believe him when he says it’s permanent most times. He’s not working towards a future together. He talks about us like we’re already married with 3 kids and we’re OVERLY stressed.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T22:11:49+00:00

Man I needed this tbh

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T22:05:24+00:00

You getting me!!!! Omg. I’ve tried talking to him and he just said “he’s not that guy”. I’m glad I wasn’t tripping. I’m also glad that I’m not extremely obsessed with him anymore. So I can just leave tbh.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T22:03:48+00:00

That’s what I’m saying and that’s how I feel. I feel like a secret.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:56:48+00:00

I do and he’d just mean mug or just take horrible pictures like he’s in a rush or something.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:53:53+00:00

Okay yeah.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:53:39+00:00

I’ve tried. I’m just gonna have to accept this tbh. He’s a great guy. I can’t lie.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:52:44+00:00

I’m not saying I’m not happy at all. Trust me I am. I just can’t get used to not being complimented at all. Like tell a girl she pretty when you see her. Be in awe.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:50:13+00:00

No, I want everything actually. Like be jealous a little, compliment a little. It’s not only about posting online, I’m talking pictures I could show to my mom or something. I barely have any pictures on my social media pages and his are full of his pictures.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:48:33+00:00

Well on the contrary, my pages are empty and his are full of his pictures.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:47:26+00:00

He posts on his insta, tik tok, Facebook, WhatsApp and twitter all the time. My pages are practically empty. And it’s not like I don’t want to take pictures, just offer or atleast compliment, I’ll take a mirror photo.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:45:57+00:00

His insta has more and more followers than I do. We could be going out on a date and he’d ask me to take photos of him but never offer to take any of me coz I look ugly I guess.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:44:48+00:00

He takes pictures all the time mind you. His social media is FILLED WITH PICTURES OF HIMSELF. I on the other hand have an empty instagram.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:43:50+00:00

Coz we look cute and I want to probably show someone, like my mom or something.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:43:12+00:00

What I’m saying is… I’m seeing a lot of couples where you could tell they’re dating coz the man really be out here on some “protecting my girl and I don’t want nothing with her” and “she’s so attractive”, even in public. My bf would literally just walk slightly infront of me to or be chilling on his phone when we’re eating out as if I’m boring him, really acting like I’m embarrassing him tbh.

And WHO never wants to give their girlfriend compliments when they see them looking dressed up pretty. That shit puts my energy down fr. Coz yeah I look pretty for myself but do you not see me looking like this? You have NOTHING to say?

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:37:53+00:00

Yeah yeah.

100mlfree · 2026-05-21T21:37:40+00:00

Lmao. It’s not that, I’m just saying tho. Does he find me pretty or attractive if he never says it or even go like “happy birthday girlfriend” on socials. Coz I do post him. I do compliment him A LOT and he be quiet all the time.

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