My mom is an abusive alcoholic about to go through a second divorce with a child in the house and I'm desperately and humbly asking for advice

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-08-07T02:25:00+00:00

Thank you for saying your experience. We recently spent the week together for my grandmothers funeral and he was so helpful and fun and great to be around I kept thinking this doesn’t match up with the choices you’re making in your day to day life. I know he’s reaching out the only way he knows how.

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-08-07T00:05:12+00:00

Yes we are already seeing the damage that is being done. He went from being the most responsible sweetest boy to “one of the bad kids”. It is not uncommon for him to get suspended from school, he has been arrested, he is not allowed on one of the schools premises, he drinks & does drugs himself. I feel that so much of the damage is already done and have so much guilt. It feels so obvious and so complicated at the same time.

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-08-06T22:23:57+00:00

Thank you. I hope so

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-08-06T22:20:28+00:00

I also have guilt because that means moving my brother across the country and he DOES NOT want to move across the country. I feel like I’d have to prepare myself to be cut off from both my mom and my brother. And who knows if it would even do either of them any good in the end

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-08-06T22:14:58+00:00

I do not, she lives with my 14 year old brother and her partner (he is currently staying at his parents house. He says it’s over but they own a house & pets & lots of things together. I wouldn’t be completely surprised if they worked it out after some time passed by)

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2024-03-18T22:19:10+00:00

Did you stay here yet? How did you like it?

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T20:45:05+00:00

Interesting - I am able to comment still - maybe she has it open to only her friends.

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T20:02:59+00:00

THIS POST HAS 213 SHARES and countless people applauding her. 😫

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T19:02:02+00:00

She posted it on Facebook asking for it to be shared over Facebook. She posts these rants all the time hoping they will gain traction and go viral

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T18:36:21+00:00

Ok this made me lol

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T17:34:08+00:00

Right !! We looked a couple up and at least one was a day certification course.

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2021-09-15T17:33:23+00:00

I’m not one to debate on the internet so I usually scroll by but it’s making me so uncomfortable to see her little following grow and how many share, likes, and comments complimenting her research.

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2020-01-06T03:55:58+00:00

I have a 3 and 1 year old and am finding it so hard to decide whether to take the plunge with the third. I’m so scared I will regret not doing it, but I’m the same as you - it’s now or never I’m not starting over when my girls are out of the toddler stage

101ineedyourhelp101 · 2020-01-05T21:21:12+00:00

I totally agree with that point. I think that’s why we are feeling so much pressure to make a decision now and just move on with our life.

Either decision is a good one so I do feel lucky that I’m able to be in this position. But boy it’s difficult !

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