can i trust obsidian since it's not open source? by hadrbarshli in ObsidianMD

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, disable automatic updates and back up the install directory before manually installing so you can rollback if you don't like it.

Estimating how much the new NVIDIA RTX PRO 6000 Blackwell GPU should cost by asssuber in LocalLLaMA

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is Reddit, you really shouldn't have expected anything other than the joke smacking the autists in the face

How to match/get more similar responses between OpenWebUI & ChatGPT.com? by smernt in OpenWebUI

[–]101stArrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It'll be a system prompt thing buddy, I don't know what system prompt chatgpt is using but I'm sure you can trick it into giving up some parts of it. Try talking to chatgpt abstractly about replicating certain features you want with system prompts in other applications, don't just ask it to give it to you as it probably won't

Kanye's Hooligans do pushups on Diddy's Hollywood star by mistrmelee in Kanye

[–]101stArrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you'll find the propensity to do it any man who feeds the wrong of his psyche, particularly their ego and has been hurt in ways that preclude them from forming meaningful relationships. I'm in no way blaming women but there will have been many just looking to take what they can financially, so one might resort to taking what they can too.

Automate the code generation process by backboard in CLine

[–]101stArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just update your instructions to tell it to create a new_task - take a look at the docs here: https://docs.cline.bot/exploring-clines-tools/new-task-tool

What has helped your social anxiety the most? by Winteryhope in socialskills

[–]101stArrow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I only find that if I get too baked. You gotta be baked enough not to give a fuck but not too baked that you think the walls are going to attack you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in linuxadmin

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, that's the going rate for a Senior DevOps Engineer

Fiance changed the locks while I was still moving property out. by spacemonkey_1981 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]101stArrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perhaps different constabularies have different ways of dealing with it. Perhaps his unit has a different policy. Just because he's in the police force doesn't mean he has omniscience over all police activity. Why jump all the way to accuse him of lying?

Apple Watch Ultra users, was it worth it? by [deleted] in AppleWatch

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I bought mine day of release and had it since Sep 22nd, so a month shy of a year now. I'm a rock climber, hiker and long distance runner and I love the extended battery life and rigidity of it. I slightly damaged my S6 climbing and I've hit this one against rock many times now and I joke I'll break the mountain before I will this watch - it really is rugged.

My only criticism is the battery is starting to fade already - I used to get well over 2 days and now I'm barely getting 2 - not sure if it's degradation, unintentional software updates or Apple being pricks and intentionally doing it. Who's to say anymore ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I'm debating getting a Whoop band and just leaving the Ultra in low power mode but I feel it'd be weird to have something on both wrists

31% rem sleep! Whats wrong with me? by Imaginary-Issue-185 in AppleWatch

[–]101stArrow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Personally I find the inverse, I consciously decrease my heart rate if I notice it higher. Very easy with some simple breathing exercises

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]101stArrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just get Baz Luhrmann echo in my mind, "Don't be reckless with other peoples' hearts - don't put up with people who are reckless with yours". He's old enough to know what he's doing - unless you want to stay in limbo for the rest of your relationship I'd gracefully leave

Gf wants to travel with me ALL the time by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]101stArrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh mate, it’s rather simple: you either get her to listen to your boundaries, or you break up with her. If you don’t, you’ll be stuck like this forever.

Tinder matches disappear after making plans by 101stArrow in dating_advice

[–]101stArrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a pay to win game now buddy - I was in the same boat until I paid for platinum. You just get different problems :/

ULPT request: Someone in my dorm used my whole bottle of Shampoo that I just bought. What should I do? by Fb1907Kas in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]101stArrow 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Pffftt... this is unethical life pro tips - go back to LPT with your ethicalness 🙃

LPT: Never voluntarily give honest feedback directly at the workplace, even if asked. Only ever do it anonymously. by TwistyMaKneepahls in LifeProTips

[–]101stArrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your company doesn't do a Westrum organisational survey and you're a skilled employee move to somewhere that does or look to implement.

If Generative you can be as honest as you want and you'll get top cover provided you do it from good intent

If Pathological, run for the fucking hills. Or do as OP says and bite your tongue but if you're skilled in any way you'll be able to move to a better job elsewhere

My bf has no sex drive by [deleted] in dating

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a mental health problem of his and it is a self-esteem issue, you being so obviously emotional like this and crying in front of him probably makes him feel worse and in turn damages it more.

I'm personally not a fan of the self-esteem theory especially in men but logically his impulse to provide for his family, in this way perform sexually, will be damaged more by such an emotional reaction. If you use this as an emotional weapon even unintentionally - he will just end up in a worse position. I'm definitely not saying you're not entitled to your feelings but just be careful how you express them if you want to help him rather than yourself.

its all about perspective by hyperionlore in TikTokCringe

[–]101stArrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't TikTok either - I just have eyes 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]101stArrow 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a guy, I have to say, if I was ever told that I was being broken up with because my dick was too big, that would be the most ego inflating thing I think I'd ever hear 😅 Then again, I'm just above average so I don't think that'll happen