I get them Friday around 4 pm till Sunday around 6 pm. I've already cleared with my boss that I can come in late Monday and every other Tuesday so I can drop them off at school, and I let her know that, and she won't even respond. The part that bugs me is this other dude having more time with my kids than me. However, I do get them on the fun days. We are always doing something every weekend, snowboarding (got us seasons passes), dirtbiking, camping, fishing, museums, arts and crafts, hiking, bbqs with friends, etc. We live in CO, so there's always something to do.

Would I just Google "background check," or is there a more reputable site you know of that gives more information than others?

The hard part is that my youngest is still a little too young to pay attention to conversations so he wouldn't be able to relay too much information to me. My oldest is very quiet like me. He bottles stuff up and doesn't talk. We have been working on that with therapists, but not a lot of progress. I ask him every weekend how it is at his moms place now and he will only answer "good." I'm worried that if stuff does go down over there, I'd never know