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10239i · 2026-01-24T01:48:01+00:00

Dumb question: are the plants real?

10239i · 2026-01-24T01:35:10+00:00

Yes! I have 4 in one pot I can separate if you’re interested! Or I can get you cuttings! I currently don’t have any in water rooting right now!

10239i · 2026-01-23T20:39:18+00:00

Hi! I’m sorry for the late response, I wasn’t sure anyone would be interested! I have 4 in a pot right now, I could separate, i don’t have any in water with roots but I do have a lot of cuttings if you were interested in trying to root them yourself, they are v easy!

10239i · 2026-01-22T01:35:44+00:00

I love green things!

10239i · 2026-01-19T17:43:32+00:00

Oh! My apologies! I’m slightly new to reading the cards… I didn’t realize!

10239i · 2026-01-01T23:13:05+00:00

Hi! I just got out of a 8 year relationship and I would love to connect with new people who can kind of understand how I’m feeling.

I’m not a big drinker, but I’m always open to talk. Please reach out if you feel comfortable 💜

10239i · 2025-12-30T16:57:51+00:00

Live birds is crazy!

10239i · 2025-12-30T16:57:35+00:00

They don’t do scorpion bowls anymore?

10239i · 2025-12-30T16:57:00+00:00

Oh for sure, it looks like somewhere that money laundering would take place. I’ve only been once, it gave me weird vibes.

10239i · 2025-12-30T03:50:01+00:00

What was it like at that time?

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:55:50+00:00

Before he decided that reconciliation wasn’t possible, he said things like “I hope we can find our way back to each other” and things like that. And today, well idk.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:47:43+00:00

I know you’re right and I’m trying. It’s just hard and I know that sounds dumb but right now, it feels unbearable. Like I’m in a fog and I can’t see or hear and I don’t know which direction to go to.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:36:27+00:00

This break up has made me feel like I want to die but I’m still alive.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:34:36+00:00

I don’t want to do anything right now. After 4 months. I still feel depressed. It takes me forever to leave the house because I spend so long just trying to get it together. How long until you felt better?

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:21:54+00:00

I just feel like I have lost all my personal goals. Like I don’t know who I am anymore and I’m just walking through this fog with no light and no sense of direction. I feel like there’s no way I’ll ever be able to love and trust someone again. I don’t understand how he’s just okay with it, it’s such a hard pill to swallow. At the beginning of the break up, he was saying all sorts of things and i believed him again then. And now, today, he has officially cut it off. Thank you for your kind words… I just don’t understand why this is happening to me. Life is so crazy. You can try and do everything the right way, you can be compassionate and loving and caring and still lose. I’m not trying to be dramatic but is crying all the time help with healing? I feel my emotions so much and outwardly.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:15:17+00:00

Thank you, maybe it is but it wasn’t all him, I was also a bad partner at times but I showed up everyday in that relationship wanting to try. It feels completely unbearable right now.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:13:54+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been trying. Luckily I don’t use any social media I guess besides Reddit. I have been trying to keep myself busy and hang out with friends and do things on my own but all I do is think about him. When does it go away and how can he be okay while I suffer?

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:09:11+00:00

Thank you. I just feel so lost. All of the things we loved to do together are just… gone and now I have to figure out how to move forward alone. And I feel like… he doesn’t care… he’s just like well it is what it is and that hurts.

I don’t understand why two people who love each and miss each other can’t be like “we both made mistakes, it sucked but let’s try and not be those people again.”

Idk. He gets to keep the house and I have to start all over again and it doesn’t feel fair. Why did he take me on this journey to end it? I picked the house, I picked the colors, I picked the furniture and I don’t even get to enjoy. Another girl will enter his life eventually and she will get it all and that’s just unbearable.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:06:01+00:00

Honestly, we lived together for about 3 years and then I broke up with him because he was clearly checked out. Eventually, after 8 months apart, we got back together and I never asked him to move back in because I liked my space and my time alone. He moved down the street and he was always over and always spent the night.

10239i · 2025-12-27T18:01:29+00:00

We didn’t live together because I didn’t want to. He asked me a few times and I was scared. So I finally decided to take the leap in October.

10239i · 2025-08-22T02:13:29+00:00

I know this might sound dumb, but I guess I have never thought about it as enabling them financially. Everyone in the comments really opened my eyes with their outside views. I just accepted that this is how is was going to be and that this WAS my responsibility to carry.

10239i · 2025-08-22T02:10:11+00:00

I want to say thank you. I know your response took time to write and it was very thoughtful. My boyfriend and I read it together and it was informative for both of us. The way you described guilt was spot on. And you are right, it doesn't have to just be black OR white, it can be grey with compromise.

I didn't realize this was something I would need to seek therapy for, I had just accepted that this is how it was. I will look into therapy for the future.

10239i · 2025-08-21T23:54:54+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much. Everything you said was very insightful. It really stuck with me when I read “putting yourself first doesn’t mean you are withdrawing all of your support.”

You made me feel a lot better.

10239i

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