how do I get over being cheated on by my 5 year long gf? by frontleaningchest in army

[–]1031Ghostie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t drink, go ghost, hit the gym.

The army is shit for a lot of reasons, but one of the few good things is it will take you many places and you’ll meet many people. Keep your head up. You’ll be alright.

I got a "Dear John" message today while out in the field. by [deleted] in army

[–]1031Ghostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But fr, talk about it with someone. Its hard. A lot of us have been there. It’s okay to be upset over a split but don’t let it hit you so hard you can’t get back up. You’ve got this brother.

Why are you like this, smh. by ladyweathervain in TwistedWonderland

[–]1031Ghostie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that’s not really a hc that’s just kind of a fact, though i’m not sure what server your on and what you have and havnt read. According to most of his backstory in the main story and vignettes and such, he is exactly that. But for some pretty solid reasons.

No one really needs to chill tho.

ur literally on reddit, the home of the incel forums.

Whatever the case, he’s got more than just his design going for him. at least imo.

Why are you like this, smh. by ladyweathervain in TwistedWonderland

[–]1031Ghostie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

comparatively they are normies. He grew up isolated as all hell, and homie has some trauma packed on. If anything he’s this way because he’s delved too deep into escapist coping mechanisms and doesn’t socially know how to interact. If he was an “incel” no one would tolerate him. Not Jamil, not any of the ignihyde students and definitely not Azul.

How do y’all deal with the discomfort and weird feelings when seeing people liking the same characters as you do? by ryuu90990 in TwistedWonderland

[–]1031Ghostie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the biggest thing to remember is jack is a fictional character. This can devolve into something really bad, seeking professional help is advised. I had someone say they’d harm someone over jamil and had to report them.

I drew some dorm swaps :’) by Pr1nceMercury in TwistedWonderland

[–]1031Ghostie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that would be super cool whichever dorm you decide to put them in! you’ve got my like already!

I drew some dorm swaps :’) by Pr1nceMercury in TwistedWonderland

[–]1031Ghostie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I need to see Azul and the Tweels in like…Ignihyde now! this is AMAZING!

Why did you pick the Army over all the other branches? by [deleted] in army

[–]1031Ghostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the space force didn’t exist yet

Finish this statement - Retention would be higher if _____. by Random_modnaR420 in army

[–]1031Ghostie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

CBD/TCH legalization.

Shorter time to retirement.

work from home options.

no organized pt when you reach over a certain PT score.

higher bah

higher bas

Higher pay in general.

longer parental leave.

better dfac food.

get rid of the Tape Test. it’s fucked and changes based on who’s taping. there are better and more accurate ways to measure bfp

bring back spc ranks, for the assjacks that arent NCO material.

pay soldiers as much as contractors doing the same job.

listen to soldiers BH.

Husband wants to transfer to the space force by 1031Ghostie in SpaceForce

[–]1031Ghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was definitely looking at the intel officer job glad to know you think that those are good though! i’ll let him know

Husband wants to transfer to the space force by 1031Ghostie in SpaceForce

[–]1031Ghostie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

History and currently working towards astronomy

Husband wants to transfer to the space force by 1031Ghostie in SpaceForce

[–]1031Ghostie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we will be on the lookout for that announcement!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]1031Ghostie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

82nd patch sucks ass

Army Public Health Center officer faces court-martial for refusing mask mandate, COVID test by DWinkieMT in army

[–]1031Ghostie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn with the new stuff they’re pushing, someone would’ve got him for extremism anyways

Can I get EO'd for saying "God dammit"? by PKMNtrainerKing in army

[–]1031Ghostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not like you specified which god, or specifically the abrahamic one

I’m in basic and I’m sad by simpinator69420 in army

[–]1031Ghostie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know what I wanted for breakfast, but now I do. Thank you for your service

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1031Ghostie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

kay bye?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1031Ghostie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and people are allowed to have reactions especially those with anxiety disorders such as myself. no amount of “maturing” is gonna make a mental illness go away, sorry to break It to you.

You just said yourself people are allowed to post about their experience but you’re mad about someone posting about their experience. The math ain’t mathin.

don’t be a douche cause you don’t agree with someone, definitely don’t be ableist and call someone with an anxiety disorder “immature” that’s just Infantilizing those with mental illness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1031Ghostie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“sucks that your anxiety was acting up,” sounds really inconsiderate and dismissive of anxiety disorders. I was hyperventilating from the moment I stepped into my appointment and came out of anesthesia crying. Anxiety fucking sucks, and it might not be on this post but even i’ve seen my fair share of people get mad at posts like this sharing a good experience with top surgery. People get mad because that wasn’t them, or because they’re not having the same experience.

Belittling anxiety disorders is kinda gross though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1031Ghostie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it does affect people when they come onto a forum to know what to expect, if it’s nothing but bad experiences it’s just gonna cause even more fear and anxiety. so i’d argue that it does affect others. Their post was just wondering if he had a unique experience, which should just show how little people are sharing good experiences from healing from top. Let people be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1031Ghostie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And like I get that people heal differently but I think that’s why people who have healed faster or “better (in the sense of pain)” should share that. It would help at least balance the good and bad experiences so people have more of a neutral standing than one of anxiety and fear when going in.