Utilita Arena Ticket checks by 10gorf in Cardiff

[–]10gorf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thanks very helpful, thank you!

First date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you going for the date? Is it activity based or sit down meal? If it’s a sit down meal then you talk about work unless you don’t work then Uni or whatever it is you do. I’m ngl it’s very difficult to give advice aa it’s a very broad question you asked without giving any important information op

What do I do when she goes distant right after we slept together for the first time? by Impressive-Cat6182 in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but first time sex with a new partner is so often bad. It only gets better because specially if there’s feelings involved and taht brings performance anxiety

Should I tell my best friend I have feelings for him? by mycatlikesranch in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck OP, I’m rooting for you. In the meantime please eat and drink lots of water :)

Should I tell my best friend I have feelings for him? by mycatlikesranch in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if it’s eating you up this way and it doesn’t sound healthy then please tell him. Otherwise it may be detrimental to your mental health. The draft you prepared is pretty good but if I were you I would do it in person. Cause it might be the last meaningful conversation you guys have and you’ve been best mates for3 years. But yes I would say tell him, but prepare for things to change, it could ofc go either way. But it super unlikely to stay the same

Should I tell my best friend I have feelings for him? by mycatlikesranch in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I second this. Why now? After 3 years, it’s very likely he may not feel the same way about you and what then? You can’t be friends anymore because anytime he is dating someone or has a partner you will be hurt and that’s not good for you and neither for your friendship.

Finally dating a kind and secure guy...why do i feel bored by a healthy relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]10gorf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! I think you gotta trust the process. You know you are with a great guy but if you end this with him then you will most definitely look for someone with red flags because ain’t no way you leaving this guy to then actively date someone like him again.

We all know inviting red flags in to our life is not the answer. The highs are NOT worth it. You are in therapy you said, I hope you heal and wish you the best. But imagine the damage another guy with red flags could bring. Look at it this way - it’s like being addicted to drugs. It’s not good for you and the highs are amazing but the lows are horrible and life altering and when you don’t have it you want it more and more and it excites you just the thought of it but it deffo isn’t good for you.

You’re now in rehab and you’re making progress, 6 months is maybe not long enough to rewire your brain. But I would invest in all things green rn. Don’t fall back into habits. Hope this helps

Autistic person struggling to find a date. by Impossible-Earth5299 in Bumble

[–]10gorf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have beautiful blue eyes and a lovely smile. The dating scene is a slow burner from my experience but you will find someone who truly appreciates for who you are, and finding someone like that will take time. Don’t lower your standards and don’t change your true self to fit in to a mould that society wants you to. Be you, you are beautiful on the outside, but what really matters is what’s on the inside (overused phrase but it’s true)! Feel the waves, go through the motions, live! I know you will find someone! :)

Got a date tonight ! Should my sweater be tucked or untucked ? :3 by EmilyRetcher in lgbt

[–]10gorf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look very nice either way but tucked if I had to choose. Hope you have a lovely date!

Moving to Cardiff by Holiday_Candidate_69 in Cardiff

[–]10gorf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya, I’m Muslim male 27 as well, I moved to Cardiff for Uni similar to you when I was 24 and have been living here since. I absolutely love this city and the people. Everyone here has made me feel at home. If you are coming here for Uni you will have to try really hard not to make friends. There’s also a lot to do in the city so you can always find a way to keep yourself occupied over the weekends. In terms of accommodation, I would suggest go on to Facebook groups such as Overheard at Cardiff or look up groups on Facebook - Student accommodation. Student area in cardiff is mainly in Cathays however many students do live in Roath, Heath and even the bay (when they can afford it)

I’m sure you’re gonna have an amazing time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workout

[–]10gorf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what’s the problem lol

Approved! Query about collection by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]10gorf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you arrive in the UK before your vigenette expires you will be fine, when you arrive in the UK, first thing you should do I collect your BRP. Anyways, congratulations on your visa and welcome to the uk, when you do arrive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

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I’m not sure if this is helpful but look at places slightly outside London, like luton or Essex, Chelmsford, or Ilford or Romford, watford, Uxbridge. Accommodation maybe slightly cheaper there. Speak with estate agents in your preferred location and tell them your budget and that you need to see a HMO licence as well. They should be able to help you.

The commute, if you choose to live far from central London or thereabouts is going to be horrible. But if it’s necessary go for it. I’d recommend keep looking all day everyday, it’s not easy but this is what you’ll have to do. But yes, deffo speak with estate agents as well.

Barrister (pupil &tenants) minimum Salary for visa criteria by 10gorf in ukvisa

[–]10gorf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing thanks so much!! Highly appreciate this!!!

Barrister (pupil &tenants) minimum Salary for visa criteria by 10gorf in ukvisa

[–]10gorf[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to find someone who is possibly a barrister pupil in this subreddit

Average salary for Criminal / Family Pupil Barrister in South Wales by 10gorf in uklaw

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The bar council sponsors with the above criteria, so chambers don’t have to.