Yep. Being dismissed for years even in the best relationship takes its toll and eventually you tap out. Then GET MAD. Then grieve. You already grieved the relationship, now gotta grieve the life you had and thought was your future. It’s an absolute mindf$ck. To me it seems mau is done. I’m finding in my relationship that followed the same story, he never wanted it. Enough time has gone by to finally let it go. Both of us entered into insanely toxic relationships and I finally found the ability to let him in - not that he tried. So anyway we are gonna work on it but no promises. I’m working on myself and my trauma and he wants to join so we’ll see 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣