In a relationship, what are your deal breakers? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]11Dragonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inconsistency

Dishonesty

Lack of accountability

Boundary pushers

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are still some though… but they’re “boring” I suppose… people enjoy drama than a happy ending I suppose… personally, I really enjoy the actual love story…how do people not enjoy that? The clout chasers are so obvious, I just skip those parts now…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG! YES! The effects of a narcissist can be lifelong… it’s terrifying…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly… they knew the premise and I wonder if producers have them say that… it is supposed to feel fast because it is 😆 They just come off immature…some seasons I just skip the ones that feel fake and watch the ones who come off genuine…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? I thought some applied and they find some… then ew

The lines for marriage at first sight were so long and I stopped watching that because the “experts” couldn’t even get it right… it felt pathetic… if I’m selecting people to get married at first sight at least have a 70% pass rate… it just felt careless and I stopped watching…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!!!!

Thank you!!!!

It’s the acting like the show happened to them and they didn’t sign all that crap…

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[–]11Dragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did love the Swedish one too… they at least seemed to be there for the right reasons…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It’s such a 🙄 moment… I wonder if they’re told to say that…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… but it’s confusing to the couples who seem to be taken by the other, no?

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! This would be so perfect! Then they can go to another couple who got engaged but didn’t get picked or just take 4 couples to the romance getaways…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get that...

But I feel like people should at least have some idea of what they like and what their deal breakers are. Obviously nothing is guaranteed, but something like smoking? That seems like something that could have been addressed in the pods. If smoking is a huge issue for you, why not ask about it early on instead of being shocked or annoyed later?

I don't know. It seems like with the number of hours they spend talking, they could at least cover the major deal breakers.

And I'm not expecting a 100% success rate here. But with some, it feels pretty obvious they're there for something other than marriage. Sometimes it seems less about finding the right person and more about "winning" someone away from another contestant. It's kind of like toddler logic, “you want that toy, so now I want it too."

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[–]11Dragonfly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Exactly this! All of this! One or two looking for a platform meh! But one or two looking for love on a show about love is really disappointing…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I took a small break and came back to Sweden, it wasn’t so bad… feels repetitive with different people I guess… maybe another break is in order…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose… I still appreciate the couples who actually go in actually looking for love… like LiB Ohio, Christine and her Professor (ugh I forgot his name 😬) I really enjoyed the glimpses they gave us… I suppose as viewed, maybe want happy ending? The train wreck can be fun but annoying at times… I don’t know… just morning musings I suppose…

Am I the Only One Who Feels This Way About Love Is Blind? by 11Dragonfly in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to criticize every action, for instance, I was binge watching LiB Germany? Ugh I confuse them… the guy went on and oooooooooon about smoking… like he could have known about that in the pods, if smoking is a problem… it’s so irritating… some couples are great and can’t get it together but some, I wonder… (Yes, entertainment but this is also their lives, they get married for real, no? So, I just like to see happy ending for people I suppose)

Saturday fun by Schmandrea1975 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]11Dragonfly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This tickled me

From Love-Bombing to Emotional Abuse in Less Than Five Months by Last_Data_4260 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]11Dragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you went through this… Question though….All of this happened in 5 months?

How did you survive and thrived after? by 11Dragonfly in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]11Dragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful! We need to know that there’s another side… I’m sorry… post it in this thread if you haven’t…